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ive got a tiny relationship problem
ive told this girl how i feel about her nd were getting on really well, ok theres a few craks the the path but they can be solved reall easy in a year or to down the line, ie i live in essex and she lives in scotland but how do i find out what feelings she has towards me because i whant to know if were just purley freinds or what but i dont know how to find out her feelings
I’m slightly high right now so like. lol.
Unless you are both willing to make the effort, know each other very well (and have seen each other face to face before and are both attracted to one another, a long distance relationship can work.
I found the direct approach to be the best way. Going around it tends to result in misunderstandings.
Penguins i tell you they’re amazing and funny and i see pretty things. I can’t stop laughing cos it’s just so funny they’re so short and i’ve had the best day ever! I met someone interesting and got myself a date, got accepted into a culinary school and have an amazing newly re-decorated room with a bong and everything and a cocktail shaker and it’s bright yellow and i have yummy things! and yay :) i should make my own post. soorry for stealingg
you need to ask her :)
wow two of my most helpful contacts saying the same thing, ok i will, and as for stealing my post feel free (if i remember i did it to you once) and congrats on your good day - you should celebrate
:) i am celebrating ! i look good today and getting high suits my personality.. except it’s just like usual me but with more energy lol
:D ask her! she likes you too i bet.
i will shes gone to bed now tho soo ill ask tomorow
isnt it weird! i mean me and this guy have been seeing each other on busses and we can’t keep our eyes off each other and today we just.. lol :D
okay, its good! good luck! really! :D can you see each other or?
excuse the highness i’m just high and i love penguins
mmm we could if she dont mind makeing the 8 hour drive like, but errm weve seeen photos of each other so we have a rough idea on what we look like
wait, so you haven’t seen each other face to face before?
darkscorpia wrote:
wait, so you haven’t seen each other face to face before?
mmm nooo i cant say we have, but it was an online dating site and well she appears the same in all her photos so it must be her and i know im me so why ? whats the problem there?
it’s because you never know how attracted you are to a person unless you see them, speaking from similar experience except it was with texts..
mmm and how did that pan out? coz i think i can make this work, i tend to be really good a sensing how people are feeling through what they have written,
and im sorry ive like nocked you off being high
don’t worry there’s more where that came from i can get high anytime iwant xD
Well, we saw each other and what we felt was kinda.. gone. It’s different when you can actually see the person in front of you
Grim_Hardcastle edited this post 3 months ago. Read the previous text »
ive got a tiny relationship problem
ive told this girl how i feel about her nd were getting on really well, ok theres a few craks the the path but they can be solved reall easy in a year or to down the line, ie i live in essex and she lives in scotland but how do i find out what feelings she has towards me because i whant to know if were just purley freinds or what but i dont know how to find out her feelings
please help, just fire random suggestions at me as it all helps me to work out a solution to the problem
Grim_Hardcastle edited this post 3 months ago. Read the previous text »
ive got a tiny relationship problem
ive told this girl how i feel about her and we´cre getting on really well, ok theres a few cracks the the path but they can be solved really easy in a year or two down the line, ie i live in essex and she lives in scotland but how do i find out what feelings she has towards me because i whant to know if were just purely friends or what but i dont know how to find out her feelings…
please help, just fire random suggestions at me as it all helps me to work out a solution to the problem.
hi grim - havent spoken in a while, how did oyu eidit my post coz coulfnt e any changes
Was there ever a suggestion of there being a relationship when you say each other on a regular basis? I find reminiscing together can open up doors, but in my case it seemed to backfire….
constantine199 wrote:
Was there ever a suggestion of there being a relationship when you say each other on a regular basis? I find reminiscing together can open up doors, but in my case it seemed to backfire….
there is a slight hint that there might be, coz i told her hw i feel towards her and she said that she likes me to, so yea i think that there is a chance, and in your case what went wrong?
I used to be a bit of an *******, but I was reallly young; and i’m guessing that by reminding her she still thinks of me that way, and her new friends as being more adult, despite what I think…
constantine199 wrote:
I used to be a bit of an *******, but I was reallly young; and i’m guessing that by reminding her she still thinks of me that way, and her new friends as being more adult, despite what I think…
ahh yeh i can safley say ive sort of done that to, not exactly that but ive got the same been there done that stamp as you - sucks dont it
Yep, that how people who remain dicks all their lives seem to be better of than those who change :)
constantine199 wrote:
Yep, that how people who remain dicks all their lives seem to be better of than those who change :)
yup. cant agree more there only thing is - i changed
to be fair my friend has found someone from wales we live in england i find if they move closer to you or you see them on quite a regular basis you relationship should work ( my friends bf has moved up here from wales) relationships where you hardly never see each other rarely work. i mean i hope you work things out but it can be very rare that long distance relationships work.
good luck
xx
xxangel027xx wrote:
to be fair my friend has found someone from wales we live in england i find if they move closer to you or you see them on quite a regular basis you relationship should work ( my friends bf has moved up here from wales) relationships where you hardly never see each other rarely work. i mean i hope you work things out but it can be very rare that long distance relationships work.
good luck
xx
yup i know although atm im wondering if this girl that im onabout, is taking me serious ly or if im just a “bit of fun” for her i dont know, im going to make one last attempt if not then hell nothing lost on my part, other than her
You told the girl how you feel and you want to know how she feels? Well, if you told her how you feel, she should have responded by telling you how she feels. If she didn’t then maybe she is shy about talking about those things over the internet and the only way you will find out, is if you go there in person. Both of you need to meet. That, in my opinion, is the only way you will see her true feelings. You see, samsong, the eyes are the windows to the soul. By looking into her eyes and she into yours is the only way you both will know the truth about each other.
Hope that helps. Oh, and please don’t think you asking for help is boring, that’s why we’re here…………………….for each other.
Jr. wrote:
You told the girl how you feel and you want to know how she feels? Well, if you told her how you feel, she should have responded by telling you how she feels. If she didn’t then maybe she is shy about talking about those things over the internet and the only way you will find out, is if you go there in person. Both of you need to meet. That, in my opinion, is the only way you will see her true feelings. You see, samsong, the eyes are the windows to the soul. By looking into her eyes and she into yours is the only way you both will know the truth about each other.
Hope that helps. Oh, and please don’t think you asking for help is boring, that’s why we’re here…………………….for each other.
thanks for that, it was higly moveing, and to move me it must have been good, errm well things have developed i have andother post on the matter now so if you dont mind drop in and see what you think on the subject now, (i wont patronise you y telling you how to click on the post near the words by my name that say HELP ME WITH)
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