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im sad.

my boyfriend dumped me! i dont no y!! i told my bestie and she laughed! im so sad i want him back =(.

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Tell him, would be my first action. Just try to talk it out with him and see why he dumped you.

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becc offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

he sounds like a ****. dont even bother. really hun u can do sooooooo much better! trust me!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

tell him ur feeling and ask him y..
and y wud ur bestie do that?
wen ryt nw u need her the most…
im sori but thats just plain mean

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

You may have heard this a million and one times, but if he doesn’t even have the courage to look you in the eye and tell you why, then WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM? Secondly, he’s not sorry. If he was, he wouldn’t be saying that to you. It’s unfair to you. There’s nothing wrong with you, only with him.

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

becc wrote:
he sounds like a ****. dont even bother. really hun u can do sooooooo much better! trust me!

Anonymous wrote:
i know but i love him and have known him for ages! i want him soo bad!!

but becc is ryt!
u can do so much better!
u sound like a very pleasant girl!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X wrote:
tell him ur feeling and ask him y..
and y wud ur bestie do that?
wen ryt nw u need her the most…
im sori but thats just plain mean
yes shes not being very nice but shes my only friend! i need her and all.

im sori 4 sayin that but it was mean though!
*bow*

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
thank u suki but i just want him! i know i sound crazy but i do want him.

i knw hw u feel.. he wasnt my bf though he was a guy friend i loved.. a childhood friend but i think weve grown apart nw..cuz im now in a diff country but we still keep in touch!Tell HIm ur Feelings!
i’ll be ur number one supporting fan!
GO GO!!!!!!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
thank you so much suki. ive told him how i feel heaps but he doesnt listen! i hate it! and i feel sorry or you and your bf =(

did u talk face to face? and wat do u mean he wnt listen?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
he just says: whatever i told you im with some one else! goodbye.

im sooo sad an i little desperate.

have self-respect for urself Anonymous..
it was his loss anyway!
i get the part where ur sad..
u cn type or talk to me i’ll listen/read..
Go YoU!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

i knw me too! so that u cud have u cn be lovey dovey with ur bf!
but it wasnt her fault though..
IT WAS SO HIS LOSS!
ur a great girl just to be talking to me!
ur very friendly and u didnt even give up on him!
I’ll be cheering 4 u watever ur decision is!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

wat? i live in new zealand
but im a filipino though..

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

oh em gee!!! i so live in palmy too, i thought nobody wud knw about dis site in nz(i told my friends though)!
tnx btw!!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

aww! u even have a cute name! i cnt tell u my name hre though but have u got msn? or facebook?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

haha me too! i love mcgregors! my bro works there
wats ur religion btw? am i being too nosy?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (57 minutes after post)

haha..lawl! wat year are u in? u myt actually be older than me or younger

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Oh my gosh we r so like nearly the same age group!!im one year less thn that..im not guna tell i’ll get bannned..Oh no..im so guna get it!!!!!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

haha me too!aw its okay i made a friends anyway! yup i do! do u have an account in help.com i’d luv to be ur friend!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

aww poor u! if i get banned i’ll use my friends one!haha lawl!are u a muslim?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

my religion is Roman Catholic but i go to the Presbyterian church nearby and sumtimes the one in Dunedin though (a roman catholic one)..

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

rlly?cuz sumtimes my classmates laughs at me for going to church its mean!
do u knw that church on the main street?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

rlly? i think im going tomorrow!i have someone i dnt like there though but u myt like everybody likes her im sure u will too… =(

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

she’s rlly babyish but she acts mature in front of her family she ignores me wen i try to talk to her, rlly bad mood swings, steals my friends,liar (she told us ones she rode a killer whale XD) and more!lol

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

hello???

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

naw its okay! i have already replied to ur question though! =D

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

aww…u r so the best just one glance and u dnt like her..my friends took one glance and liked her a couple of months later they didnt..

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

haha..me too! ive got others too..but u understand me so well kate(can i call u dat?its CUTE)!!
ur so fun and friendly..it ur ex bf’s loss!
btw my name is jelica lianne ragasajo but u pronounce the J like an H though!
=D

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

in my last name only about the j thing!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

u think? haha i dnt think so! ur cooler! though! u cn call me jelly or jel my friends call me dat.. and btw i told my friend about u! im sori 4 nt askin ur permission she was excited though..*bow*

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

r u goin to chrch tomorrow?

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

ahh..kay den!! bye bye!! cn i call u?! i’ll miss u too!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 54 minutes after post)

wen r u guna be on again?
message me
tnx
hav fun on ur hiking!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 4 minutes after post)

i think they removed it cuz i cn only see it like this

hi! ive got the best news!!
my mom allowed me 2 sign up in msn and facebook!
add my msn at: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 7 minutes after post)

is that ur name in face book? Katie Leehaw?
OK!

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 10 minutes after post)

done! all u do now is confirm!
haha..me too very much! lol

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 17 minutes after post)

i cnt where can u see it? we cn actually chat on facey too ryt? tell me der~!

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