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My mate went to a festival with my Dad, and she left early. I called to ask why as I was planning on going up and meeting them to have fun at the festival this weekend. She did not answer but later she text me to say she was not feeling sociable. Then she text me to say my dad raped her. I doubt she would lie. I do not know what to do and I am very concerned for her. I love my dad and am incredibly hurt and confused if this is true.

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, with you could get a test and they can prove it with dna. Sounds like a bad situation, but i hope you loved both of them before this incident because regardless, someones lying and it would be impossible (personaly) to forgive them…but it is definitly something you have to put your foot down in.

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X*SuKi_SaKuRa_jUne*X offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

ask ur dad, ask him seriously about it

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

uhh…

well.

step one. talk to your friend FIRST. you dont want your dad reacting badly to those acusations… as he would most likely do.

step two. after you find out enough about what happened, THEN i would suggest perhaps talking to a councellor. after all anything you say is kept secret… well most of it anyhow. they might be able to give you some better advice. (just dont use names or anything.)

step three. if you feel comfortable with talking to your dad after all this THEN try talking to him. but use your head. dont make it sound like you believe your friend over him. this is a fact finding mission. not a chance to place accusations.

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vivzofwale offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

the right thing to do is for your friend to report to the police (if this is indeed true). and if she does you shouldn’t hate her. but looks like she doesn’t want to (just yet). so i agree, talk to your dad about it and ask him. he should know that you know.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

you should confront ur dad. and ask him the truth. then go to ur gf. and go get her checked out and make sure shes ok. then i would press charges against ur dad.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

opss sorry read it wrong i mean friend.

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SweetBlade offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

talk to your friend. confront your dad. if your friend is up to it, sit down and have a talk with the three of you. get her checked out. have her go to counseling. get your dad some help.

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

vivzofwale wrote:
the right thing to do is for your friend to report to the police (if this is indeed true). and if she does you shouldn’t hate her. but looks like she doesn’t want to (just yet). so i agree, talk to your dad about it and ask him. he should know that you know.

if it is true then she should report it, sorry its your dad and all but not cool.

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