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I am so fed up of this

This has been the worst summer holidays ever. it’s also turning out to be the worst LIFE ever.
I’ve had to work every day, my parents are insisting i lose weight, my siblings have been driving me mad.
I honestly just don’t know how much longer i can put up with this

I’m sorry if it sounds like i’m over-reacting. But when you’re 15 everything seems like the end of the world.

Can someone please cheer me up? Or send me some money in the post so i get out of this hellhole and see if i can do something worthwhile with my life.

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emma_locke offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

why did the chicken cross the road?

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Moo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

emma_locke wrote:
why did the chicken cross the road?

ha, i don’t know emma_locke. Why did the chicken cross the road?

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emma_locke offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

just to cross the road!!! lol

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theSgt offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

you’ll feel so much better for losing weight, and the money you earn will be useful, so its not all a bad thing. tell your parents about your siblings, as them to talk to them to stop annoying you/whatever the problem is

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emma_locke offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

sorry i know its lame thought it may cheered you up!!!!!

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Moo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

theSgt wrote:
you’ll feel so much better for losing weight, and the money you earn will be useful, so its not all a bad thing. tell your parents about your siblings, as them to talk to them to stop annoying you/whatever the problem is

of course i would feel better losing weight. But technically i don’t need to lose weight.
I have a healthy BMI, and i eat healthily.
There is no reason for my parents to be bugging me about it
But when you get constantly told off about what you eat, it really starts to get to you.
They make me feel unnecessarily self-conscious. I really just hate that

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

So then you have to confront them and tell them, but at the same time, if you want to, eat a bit more healthily so they cant complain.

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Moo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

theSgt wrote:
So then you have to confront them and tell them, but at the same time, if you want to, eat a bit more healthily so they cant complain.

Oh i have many times.
The problem is they are just too controlling. Everything i do, they will interfere

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theSgt offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Ask them to be less controlling then, perhaps pretend to do something secretly, then they’ll try to find out and it’ll be something without meaning/insignificant, and then say to them, why do you care about something so small? Back off..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

Hun working everyday and paying attention to your weight will become an EVERYDAY thing for the rest of your life. Its not bad and the only reason they make you work is to show you how to appreciate earning things on your own. They may be strickt but you live in their home and you must abide by their rules. You will be able to move out in a few years but just know that you are taken care of until then. Dont take it for granted or else it will bite you in the behind when you get older.

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