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My fiancee left me 2days before we were to get married,

i realize it was my fault i cheated on him a couple times in the beginning of our relationship (it was about a yr ago)but i didnt love him then or myself for that matter and i knew after i had done what i did it was wrong and not me at all,i felt guilty and just disgusted w/myself but i kept it from “R” blocked it out of my mind not thinking me and “R” would probably get serious anyway so i wouldn’t have to deal with the mess i had created, well i fell in love with him and we got engaged, im change from back then until now i totally adore “R” and i felt i need to tell him it because i love him and he deserved to know, so i did it was the hardest thing iv ever done, now “R” hates me and told me this was one thing he could never love me again, it was in the past and i m so sorry for what i did to him but i would never do anything like that again ,its just now he wont listen to me and i want to ask for a 2nd chance i know things can be great if we deal with this the right way and not run away from our prob, how do i tell him this how much time should i wait to give him,

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Some people just have set morals.
I don’t know if he would be one of these guys nut unless you have a long talk with him and see if its salvagable.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

id consider your self luck, iv i had have lnown you were cheating on me right as it was happening i could deal with it but a year or so later, dam id be gutted, so much so id let you walk dont the isle and i would have left you at the alter just when the vicar dud asks every one if they have a reson for you not to be wed,

so id write a letter and let him brew for a long long time

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