social help: so here’s my latest dilemma!

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so here’s my latest dilemma!

i am really really shy and i always have been, actually i think its something else because sometimes i’m shy and sometimes i’m not its like i have my moments. well there came a point about a couple months ago where somehow my mind decided it was going to be extremely shy! now whenever i am around my friends or even family i’m afraid to say something because i’m basically afraid it will come out stupid. i feel like i have this issue about expressing myself even though i have this image of myself thats completely different. i’m really lost here and i feel like i need help finding just who i am and not being afraid of it! can anyone give me some solid advice? i really could use the help.

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Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

how old r u?

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littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

You know I used to be like you. But that came for me from years of abuse, because no matter what I said when I was a little kid, I would get punished. But this isn’t about me, it’s about you.

Do you have any idea why you’re like that or what might have made you become like that?

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

17. should be graduating in about a year!

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Try 5HTP herbal supplement

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

well…basically up until my sophomore year i was a total outcast and had barley anyone i could turn to so i was all alone all the time. then i found one really good friend and he dropped me like a fly a couple of months ago. i was pretty hurt and that might have caused it i guess.

littlenick 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Then that friend was not a real friend. A real good friend sticks with you through thick and thin. Don’t sweat it or blame yourself for it.

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Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Try pretending you’re not shy.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

i guess thats true and the friends i have now are willing to listen so i should at least be able to let them into my life. why would they talk to me in the first place right?

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