Love help: Would this be considered sweet or weird? - Help.com

well i think something like that would be sweet..but how about you find a single flower like a daisy and say something like “so i saw this and thought of you” or find out what her favorite candy is. i dunno i just find the roll strange…but it’s a sweet idea!

Women fall for that sort of thing all the time. It means you were paying attention. This one woman who became my girlfriend later and I were talking on the phone. She was at a summer camp with her kids and it was raining. I heard her tell her kids that she would try to find some playing cards for them to use because it was supposed to rain all week. The next morning I dropped 3 decks in the mail to her, she got them the next day. She said it was the sweetest gift she ever got because I was paying attention to her.

I’d say go for it with the roll.

And as far as an hours drive goes, that’s not bad. Her and i were about the same distance apart and that didn’t bother us except missing each other a lot.

well.. i dont know if i would go with the roll my man… because if she only has a roll and butter each time shes with you she might feel insecure about eating around you.. and giving her a roll with butter may make her feel like “oh shoot he noticed” and might make her feel awkward…i think peace has a bit of a better idea going with the single rose or something like taht or some of her favorite candies is sweet… and an hour isnt bad.. i live an hour walk away from my girl and i make the hour walk every otehr day… its not bad and its not a horrible sacrifice.. just an hour of my time and i get to see her all day.. i say make a move :)let us know how it goes..

Well if ya’ll are going to warn him about the bun and she has any kind of eating disorder then maybe candy would be a bad idea as well.

Flowers are always a good thing. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that no matter who the woman is if she is between 3 and 103 she will like flowers. Even women that say they don’t like flowers, still like flowers.

no i didnt mean an eating disorder.. some women are insecure about the way they eat… like maybe the guy will think theyre a slob… or a sloppy eater.. or eats too much.. she probly cares about him so naturally cares what he thinks.. i wasnt trying warn him that she might have an eating disorder.. lol

I was thinking that when i hit enter.

lol

slimmmerman wrote:
Well if ya’ll are going to warn him about the bun and she has any kind of eating disorder then maybe candy would be a bad idea as well.

Flowers are always a good thing. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that no matter who the woman is if she is between 3 and 103 she will like flowers. Even women that say they don’t like flowers, still like flowers.

not true. i really don’t like flowers. honestly. i hate that. yes i gave an idea about a flower because usually girls do like them.

lol if you know her well it may be sweet… but only if you know her WELL.

that is só sweet! I’d say give it a try, really girls love guys who do that stuff!

Thats what I said, go for it with the roll. Or a dozen rolls :).

Now if you could find a bakery that made rolls in the shape of roses, that would rock!

slimmmerman wrote:
Thats what I said, go for it with the roll. Or a dozen rolls :).

Now if you could find a bakery that made rolls in the shape of roses, that would rock!

yeah!!! mmmm rooolllsss…….. yum

Rolls, definitely! :D

For a second she may think it is weird, but then she’ll smile and be like, ‘He cares. He notices things about me.’ She sounds like she is into you, so go for it!

I would vote no on flowers. They are too… well, they aren’t special. They are a typical gift, and won’t mean anything. Girls like to feel special. ;D (Don’t we all?)

Plus rolls are delicious. :D

Go for it!