Love help: i am 13 years old and i am in love with my 19 year old best friend…what should i do?

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i am 13 years old and i am in love with my 19 year old best friend…

what should i do???

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

uhm. how did you end up with a best friend that much older than you?

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slimmmerman 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Do nothing…

If you try anything with the 19 year old if they go for it it would land them in serious legal trouble.

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shinanegi 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

well, it all started with him being my brothers friend. then he became my saxophone teacher, and now best friend. i wouldnt do anything with him, its not like that. he dont know

Help me with: i am 13 years old and i have fantasized about my 19 year old best friend…he also knows about it…we have talked

[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

just forget about it…start looking at guys your age.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

i do…i also love this guy tyler, but he’s in 9th grade and im in 7th so i dont get see him until after 5th hour on my way to spanish, and when we have band things….and i cant just forget about…he’s my best friend. i talk to him every day

Help me with: i am 13 years old and i have fantasized about my 19 year old best friend…he also knows about it…we have talked

[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

lol you don’t love anyone. you’re 13. i’m sorry. you just like them.

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shinanegi 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

lol you dont know me. and i can love…lol im a very mature 13 year old :)

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Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

baha. okay then. we’ll see.
i was 13 once.
i was a very mature 13 year old.
i didn’t fall in love until i was 18, nearly 19.
i was mature enough to know that you don’t fall in love at that young of an age.

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shinanegi 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

lol snobby much?

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

nope. just know what i’m talking about.

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red1263 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

lol, now now [think peace], to each his/her own, if she says that she’s mature for her age, then who are we to say no? But I have to agree that it is illegal for him to try anything with someone so young, I’m afraid the only thing you can do is wait until you’re of age to be with him, and then go from there

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours after post)

again…would never do anything with him. gawsh yall dont pay much attention lol

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 14 minutes after post)

red1263 wrote:
lol, now now [think peace], to each his/her own, if she says that she’s mature for her age, then who are we to say no? But I have to agree that it is illegal for him to try anything with someone so young, I’m afraid the only thing you can do is wait until you’re of age to be with him, and then go from there

:p sorry. i was in a mood. lol i’ll try to do better next time. plus this is a pet peeve of mine. can’t help it.

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