Love help: My husband and I have been married for 2 years.. - Help.com

I think you should talk about youselves, you can not be only living together for the children .Love is very importantbetween husband and wife .Maybe you can sent a href=”http://www.lkkreplica.com”>omega watches /a> to your husband.

I’m assuming that he no longer wants to continue with our marriage so I want to have another child.. without him being there to support me..

I don’t think it is wrong but then I also don’t think it is right.
You have a relationship that is on the rocks, you may want to save it but the truth is that if he doesn’t want to stay with you then there is nothing to save. Haveing another child would be an unwise thing to do right now, you may not be thinking clearly right now because you love him and willing to do what you can to keep him.
Let him go and see how you feel in a few months or even a year.
The break may make things better or it may make you both realize you can work on it.

Thank you all for your responses..

LazyDaze, I don’t want another baby to keep him. I’m willing to let him go.. I did what I could to salvage this marriage so all that’s left is me trying to move on.. True, mentally I may not be stable enough to go through a pregnancy.. but I really do feel that I did my best for him. So I’m not angry with him at all. I’m torn up inside but I will do anything for my child.

Cliv, I suggested counseling but he does not want to. I guess I didn’t marry the man I thought I did.. I wish I knew how he really feels.. then it would be easier for me to let go and move along.. but men don’t share their true feelings. and i have things i say that i can no longer say..

it’s just a mess..

i can’t understand ur problem..i mean i can’t sea any PROBLEM…u try 2 be the best mother;he’s an admireable dad…both of u want a baby…i’m sure if he didn’t love u he wouldn’t talk about a son 2 u…there’s just a little space between u;that u can fill it easily…ur love makes it easy…
about how 2 tell him:descuss abou it with him…i mean “having another baby”
i hope i’m helpful…wish u luck;kiss ur daughter :)

First of all let me tell you that the first three years in any marriage is the most crucial. What you are going through is normal. Secondly, you said you are married for two years and you have a two years old child. You started your marriage with a baby which was tremendous stress for both of you. Having all that responsibility already is very difficult. What you need to do is to put aside the thoughts of having another child with or without him, and to divorce. You need to go out on a date. That’s right! Have a babysitter or in-laws look after your child while you go out with him on a date, in common programs, away from home and problems. Go out to a weekend retreat only with him and pay 100% full attention to him. Make him feel like there is no other man like him in the whole wide world.