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Is a girl pressurising a guy into s*x as bad as the other way around?
Okay I’ve been with my boyfriend a long long time now and if there’s one thing I know about him is that he can’t life without it! He gets really angry all the time, then randomly depressed and distant.
Well we used to use c*ndoms ages ago but my boyfriend stopped trusting them because they broke on us twice. Both times though it was our own fault and we won’t be making those mistakes again.
I then went on the pill but I had to come off it because none of them agreed with me.
So currently were not having sex, and we haven’t been for a month or two, and tension is building. Because he doesn’t trust condoms anymore, (even though the other times really were our fault)
and because I can’t be on the pill anymore and because all the other options he trusts are too expensive for us right now.
I’ve been trying to convince him to have sex anyway and to relax and that condoms are trust worthy, we just made mistakes but he feels really uncomfortable with the idea. I’m sick of us always fighting though because of the way he’s acting, its just a build up of testosterone and nothing else seems to get him back to normal.
But he’s uncomfortable with it, and I’m kinda pressurising him… is that just as morally wrong?
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