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I don’t understand y my so called parents expect me to love them.

They left me with my grandmother since I was born took me bak at 10yr old I am now bout to b 18, ever since I moved back I have never been able to get along with them bcus they r constantly comparing me to my younger sis who has been with them since birth. And now my dad looks at me like he’s discusted by even lookin at me and dosent want me around I have 2 older sisters who were left behind with me they both moved out 3years ago bcus they couldn’t stand my parents, I don’t blame them for my behavior I have done weed and popd pills I also drink n party like there’s no tomorow but at the end of the day I still feel like ****, it’s been a year since my ex boyfriend passed away and they don’t even take in consideration that wen he passd away I needed them the most, I kno they love me but I just wishd they show it I wanna better my life but it’s hard wen I have no one that understands me.

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dodzi offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

****. but they are like that for no reason? y do you think they act like that?

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sexy_me_not_yo offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

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sexy_me_not_yo offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I really don’t kno. If im a hustle to them they should just let me kno..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I don’t pretend to understand what you are going through completely, but the fact that you want to improve your life is admirable. Having a family that is fractured for any length of time is never easy, especially when you meet up again. Healing your relationship won’t be easy, and will take a lot of work on both your parts. From what you have posted it sounds like you would like to become closer to your parents. Perhaps you could ask your dad to sit down with you and talk about how you are feeling? Keep in mind that he may be busy: not everyone can take time out of their day to talk when you feel like it, but maybe you could ask him to set aside some time later in the week? Make sure you know exactly what you want to say, but don’t throw it in his face.

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LoneWulf offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 22 minutes after post)

sexy_me_not_yo wrote:
I really don’t kno. If im a hustle to them they should just let me kno..

hassle not hustle unless your scamming them. No your not a hassle to them

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