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I called my friend a bich

it was just supposed to be a joke well she took the joke seriously and because of somthing that happened recently with that word involved now i never heard of what happended and i have been apoligizing up and down i even bagged about myself but she just keeps on saying our friendship will never go back to normal again and stop messaging me and i told her everything how much my friendship means to me wanted to here her side of the story but she still sais those thing i want my friend back what should i do

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ev3lyn_ offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

just give your friend a little time and try again soon.

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Lionleann offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

but im sorof impatiant and the guilt is eating me alive

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Jennah Ranae offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Learn how to spell :| Your spelling is horrible instead of worrying about some stupid person, worry about your education.

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ev3lyn_ offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

“stupid person” how would u know how much this person means to him? Friendship is something Lionleann seems to value. you should really be sensitive about what u say. how would u know he doesnt already worry about his education??

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Jennah Ranae offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

He should spend less time worrying about it, and fix the problem. Obviously your mind doesn’t understand the importance of education either. Friends come and go, Is he going to make a living with befriending and fighting over this person? I do not think so, instead of this forget about it, im sure in a couple of weeks it will work itself out. You on the other hand i was not addressing. I do believe he posted a post to see what people think, and thats my opinion. If thats not yours get over it.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Its not a friendship thats worth having. All friendships have quarrels. you’ve apologized, theres nothing more you can do. If it doesnt work out, it doestn work out. Hell my friend and I amost came to blows a few days back and we both talked it over, apologized, and now we are fine. I mean…what good is a friendship that cant overcome a word? That cant overcome the heat of the moment?

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connecting offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

if u already gave ur friends million times of apology and she ignoring it, so forget her. give her some space until she miss you and find something else to do. your world it’s not only about her right?

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Lionleann offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (11 hours, 56 minutes after post)

yep and btw im a girl not a guy and this is internet i dont pay attention to my grammar and spelling here and ya ill give her some time if she dosnt want to be friends anymor then so be it

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Jennah Ranae offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (22 hours, 59 minutes after post)

I do honestly think thats the best thing you can do. If she is so selfish and can’t understand it was just a joke, then she obviously didn’t care a lot about your friendship in the first place.

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connecting offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

jennifer.mcdonal wrote:
I do honestly think thats the best thing you can do. If she is so selfish and can’t understand it was just a joke, then she obviously didn’t care a lot about your friendship in the first place.

i agree… if she’s selfish like that, she’s not a good friend for u, that’s her limit as a friend… find new friends, open your social life… you’ll see and you’ll find some other great friends. good luck!

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Lionleann offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

thankyou

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redrose11 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 18 hours after post)

Try by mentioning all the good things you’ve done together then ask her is she really ready 2 throw away the good freindship between you to becouse of a stupid little joke witch you didnt mean then give her a little time to think over it i no you dont want to wait but it’ll have to manage then talk to her if that dosnt work then think over is she really worth the worrying and guilt

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