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Unloved useless people unite!

Maybe you take everything to heart? You should not take everything people tell you or do to heart. Sure you will find people who will try to hurt you no matter what but that is their nature. So next time somebody says or does something hurtful consider the source and try to evaluate if it’s worth the headache or the trauma that you’re going to cause yourself by over thinking it. I used to get hurt for every little thing that people told me. No more. I just roll with the punches. And you should do that too.

to hell with everything, you dont need anyone to make you happy, do what you gotta do and have fun.

Tallula wrote:
Unloved useless people unite!

Wow! You’re gonna start a revolution! :)

been on that site thanks, but im from the UK, one day soon though i will move to America

You are loved and useful.

You sound exactly like me.I made a similar post earlier today.No matter how bad you feel there is someone who loves you and would fall apart without you.

The joy of the lord is your strength. pray ask god for help.

Lawyermom wrote:
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. PRAY ASK GOD FOR HELP.

Yes. Some people find strength in him. However, some people are not so religious and that’s what sometimes gives them peace and keeps them at peace.

However, I have always said, to each his own.

Here’s what I once came across online:

‘In our inmost being, we are all completely lovable because spirit is love. Beyond what anyone can make you think or feel about yourself, your unconditioned spirit stands, shining with love nothing can tarnish.’

I wrote it down so any time someone hurts me in one way or another, I could read it and remind myself I’m not worthless, insignificant, stupid, ugly or whatever they wanted me to believe.

I hope you don’t take offence, but I could see it helping you alittle if you changed your name from EmptySoul to something more cheerful :D. And change you picture to a cute kitten or something :P. If you’re capable of feeling, then you’re not the one without soul!
Painting the walls balck aren’t going to make you feel any better ;)

I love you. I know it wont help you much for your issue but at such a moment i know that i would like to hear that from someone… I really love you. even though i don’t know who you are, who you were and what you’ll be but somehow we all here got connected so i love you and all of us love you…and when we love someone we want them to move ahead with us to a newer place newer life…leaving behind the memories of all those who have hurt you in the past…and leave them who had hurt you look for those who still love and care for you. Cause once someone hurts you that person gets the power to hurt you again and its your choice to let them or not to.

i think you should believe in your self a little, may be love your self a little more, people will never love you all the time it’s true and you should realize that. also realize that peoples talk isn’t the thing that determines who you are.

just try to concentrate on the ones that really loves you and you will find them if you believe you deserve to be loved.

sometimes we only see the bad part of us but i know there is good in you that deserve to be loved

Don’t concentrate on getting people to love you. Concentrate on loving yourself. People find it difficult to love people who don’t love themselves, they’re thinking… “wait, hold on a minute, this guy doesn’t love himself, gotta be something wrong there” and they move off. People who love themselves are loved by all as they act as a positive beacon to all around them.
Concentrate on loving yourself, even if it doesn’t work, If you love yourself, you’ll find you won’t even care what people think!

I understand exactly how you feel..one day we will find that one person that is meant to be in our lives to love us for who we are…keep your head up always.. no matter how far we may be from each other ill be here for you…torii mae

I won’t say you’re loved or appreciated, you’re both! :). I understand how hard it can be, I really do but you must know you’re worth it or else you wouldn’t be here trying to figure all this out, I may not know you that well, or at all but I know you do have the strength to realize this. For someone else to love you, you have to love yourself first bro.