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NOW im in love with him..

i dont know what changed. but suddenly, somehow.. i fell in love with the guy i never thought i would. see, he liked me 2 years back. well.. he texted me and said that he ‘loved me’ even though he knew i didnt like him, and he told me (through text)that he respected that to much to get in the way of our friendship. but i really, really didnt like him! summer came.. and went. and when we got back to school last year, i found myself falling for him. he still liked me, and was going to ask me out… but i was, then, still not over my previous boyfriend. you know the story; guy breaks up with girl, girl still likes guy, suddenly guy starts showing interest again, and girl has her head stuck up in the clouds, leaving other guys mostly unnoticed. so.. for the sake of that previous boyfriend, i pretended that i ‘didnt like him.’ (in hopes that the previous boyfriend would ask me out…. and just for time’s sake, he didnt.) but now, with another summer past, and school started again, i found myself more in love with him than i’d thought. but.. im not sure if he likes me. he has a lot of girls who are friends (one an old flame) and to tell the truth… they’re really slutty towards him. (EX. they are constantly trying to shove thier breasts into his face) im just not sure how to get him to see that i like him a lot.. and, truthfully, i always have. and this is my senior year, so i dont think i’ll get another shot. please… help me not to miss this one.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Talk to him…bring up the past casually. See, if I were the boy though, and I told a girl that I loved her, and she didn’t say it back, I would move on. Especially if she was still into her ex…and you have to see things from his point of view. But the best advice I can give you is to talk to him.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Do your self and most likely him possibly one of the biggest favors you will do in life and just tell him. Losing this opportunity can be a humongous regret later in life trust me on that one. The worst thing that can happen is that he has lost interest, the best that can happen is you both realize that you get the rare chance in life to share something that is so special there are no words that can explain. I hope that this helps you in some way. Good luck!

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

This makes me laugh.

When he wanted you you weren’t interested.

Now other girls are chasing him you are interested.

You’ve managed to put together a long justification for all this but it comes down to what everyone knows: a guy who is easily available isn’t interesting and a guy who is busy and popular is interesting.

Get a grip on what drives your attraction and you’ll realize what makes all these crushes come and go. Then you’ll be able to make smart choices instead of being a prisoner of your hormones.

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Seriuz offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

Tell him!!!!!!!! Im in da situation dat he was in when he told yu he loved yu trust me da way it aounsa he still loves yu i mean i told diZ girl ive lovd for 9 years dat i loved her and she doesnt love me bak. Instead she liks some ider guy so i understand dat guy dat told yu. By da way im a Sophomore diz year in school n i just told da gurl i loved her 4 days ago and well id love it if she told me she loved me bak. So tell him yu love him da same way he told yu he loved u. Trust me i bet u ajything he still loves yu. Do it n thank me later

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Seriuz offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Can yu add me please i really want to c how she feels and yu were lik in da same exact situation shes in now so please ad me

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