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can’t u connect from a cell phone!?!or a friend house?!

how did she get u r on this site?!?!?why does she disagree?!price?!or u have told her about what have u said 2 us & our advices?!

ya you mother is correct, dont spend more time here
Talk to your friend lively

Follow your heart and you knw what’s right and wrong…so, don’t worry :)

But, You can spend all the time in front of Pc(tht doesn’t mean Help.com alone)….
you’re young, you need to enjoy…go out and spend your time! Somewher or doing something else, instead of in pc alone!!!

i mean you can’t …sorry ^^”

But, You can’t spend all the time in front of Pc(tht doesn’t mean Help.com alone)….
you’re young, you need to enjoy…go out and spend your time! Somewher or doing something else, instead of in pc alone!!!

the only way i can recommand;that helps u stay in touch with ur friends here without ur mom kill u!!!!is 2 leave here but take e-mail of ur friends here;those u love most…but…it’s not a good solution i know this site is s.th else…
or just leave here & when u r sure they’ve 4gotten here come back…
what about ur dad?!?!?has he told u anything?!i don’t know anything about him?!does he support u?!?!

Sounds to me like she is just trying to protect you.
This blace can be full of (bleep) at times so she isn’t wrong.

I would like to know though, has she got an account here?
Has she posted something, been on this site for a little bit, spoken to people here?
Because I would say that if she hasn’t then she is not being fair in judging and is basing her idea on fears as people tend to fear what they don’t know and she is assuming that this place can only make bad things worse.

Tell her to come have a browse around, speak to people, I can’t help it if she hates it more after a visit but atleast by doing that she will be telling you not to do something that she actually has some idea about :)

You need to manage everything, you shouldn’t get stuck in this site alone(First, i found this site hard to leave^^’)..
don’t forget your day to day life…just spend some time in this site and not always!!!

well ur mother has a point you know ^_^
but not a valid point :P

well you see in this world everything has it’s advantages and disadvantages and stuff, if the advantages are more important and are worth it then you keep doing what you are doing if not you dont ^_^

ℓινιηg4уσυ� wrote:

❤ℓινιηgJst4u wrote:
i mean you can’t …sorry ^^”

What i cant?

This one:
But, b>You can’t /b> spend all the time in front of Pc(tht doesn’t mean Help.com alone)….
you’re young, you need to enjoy…go out and spend your time! Somewher or doing something else, instead of in pc alone!!!

ℓινιηg4уσυ� wrote:

❤ℓινιηgJst4u wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ� wrote:

❤ℓινιηgJst4u wrote:
i mean you can’t …sorry ^^”

What i cant?

This one:
But, b>You can’t /b> spend all the time in front of Pc(tht doesn’t mean Help.com alone)….
you’re young, you need to enjoy…go out and spend your time! Somewher or doing something else, instead of in pc alone!!!

i prefer to be alone and quite insted of go out etc..

yea, its ok!!!
like everyone has some special feelings like what they want to be…and you want be .or like to be alone(and with u r bf)…its ok!!
But, …just don’t use pc too much!! thts all!!!
Find something to learn and enjoy….music, books or whatever you like, instead of this site(too much)!!

i really hav any idea…let me think & eat s.th 4 launch!!i’ll answer u later! :)
p.s:it’s 1:39 PM & i haven’t eatten anything 4 hours…

From what you told us before. Seems your mum want to control you. Thing is you can do whatever you want but not everything as you want. Reason because you life in her house.
If your mother is also on this website. She is only pushing you away with this kind of behavior. It’s her own choice to rather have a daughter or no daughter. Respect is earned not given.

SO if you mother give more rap about it, about this website which is silly. Try to come on here less moderately. But then she sealed your decision when you are old enough.

Sorry your mother has no say with all due respect. But she has a say because it’s her house and you have to abide to the laws of her house. For every action there is a reaction. As simple as that.

Regarding other people saying she need to get more out. I think this hold true for everybody. But people forget their people who like the streets lithely. You simply can’t get them to stay in the house… and you have the type who likes there house. As simple as that just need to find some balance between them.

You cannot force a person who likes the streets to stay at home. Neither can you force a person who likes their home to go out.

Just tell your mum. You do all your chores in the house and do them right. So you have the right to go where you want. If she still being nasty about it. Then make a compromise that you come less but that is sealing her faith. It’s her choice if she wants it.

Stand your ground my friend!

Then talk to her honestly and say. You have the right to go on the website. if she still bans you. Tell her you will be on more less. As said it’s her choice if she want’s too looese a daughter or not

ℓινιηg4уσυ� wrote:
If she want or no,
Im stil going to move out from this HELL!!

Relax!!!
Do what you feel right!!!
Its your life, if they doesn’t treat you well, then…you have to live it for yourself and for the one who cares for you.
don’t confuse…..be cool!

Some parents become more scared if they see something coming.
Instead they talk about it or let go a bit.
They grasp you tighter as ever before because they’re afraid.
This may be very well what she is thinking.
As she is afraid of losing her bond with her child.
A little bit late if you ask me. But that is how parents think….
Talk to her but don’t waver on your plan.
Perhaps she will finally open up just a bit.

i still have no idea;unless….u said,u work,right?!?!can’t u make the money of internet & connect from somewhere else???!?!of course u have 2 reduce amount of visiting here but i assume it’s better than never!!!!!

Show ur mom the out-pure of love you have here and tell her that this is a site that she can trust. Of all the sites out there, your mother should be happy that you hang out on here and not some other non-restrictive site. Show here that you can’t even curse on here because they block it. Show her the site. Then she’ll see that it is a good one.