love life help: its a bit weird.. - Help.com

its a bit weird..

but here goes,
i love my boyfriend, so much- he’s like my future husband.. the problem is sometimes i feel that am so bored of being with him i dont knw why and how. but i feel really bored that i want to just fight with him or jst break up with him.. i dont knw why am feeling this way, but am really tired. i’ve been thinking and guessing, maybe cuz in all my life i do whtever i want and when he came he’s controlling me!

i seriously dont know whts wrong with me, but i sure need help in knowing why am i so bored!!!

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Rosiee offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Maybe its because you can see a future with him your frightened of the prospect of not having another guy?

You just need to get over the need for a fling or whatever and look to the future with your awesome guy (:

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rom-e-yo offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Yea maybe, that is
really thankful =)

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Being with one person is more boring but also more secure… if you want a family stay with the guy. If you just want to tramp around and have fun dump him.

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rom-e-yo offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Yea.. but its not a good reason, i mean i wont tell him am breaing up with you cuz i need to have fun! thats not fair to him.. he loves me so much you have no idea its been 3 years

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D_D offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

it’s simple. ask yourself: “am i attracted to him?” If you genuinely are then stick with him, if you do not feel attracted to him any more, then leave him (cos there really is no point in sticking around with someone you aren’t interested in).

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