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* Well the problem is this I meet this boy, (my boyfriend)*

Well the problem is this I meet this boy, (my boyfriend)
And my parents don’t want me to married or be in love with some one…
Because they don’t want me to go out etc…
They just want me to stay at home all the time…
I’m growing up I want to make up my dream
1. Get married
2.have children.

But they don’t want me to be in love with someone…
They just want me to be home…
That’s the problem that I have here…
I love the man of my life I pass 1year and 8 months and 6days with him…
How can I let go the person that completes my life?
Or how I can let go the love that I have for him??

It’s hurt me a lot…
But I’m not going to pull away my love for him I love him with all my heart I never find a person that can understand me, helps me, be there in good and in bad times..Etc…

I don’t care what they say I’m in love with him,
His not a bad person his just an quite and lovable person
But the problem is this!

My mother knows his grand mother when she was young and his grand mother is not a good person is one of the people that she’s married and so with a lot of guys having s*x you know what I mean but he don’t have to suffer from his Grand mother mistakes..

How can I let him go?
And I know how he suffered about other relationships he had…
They were cheating on him. I don’t do that I love him with all my heart and he love me too…
I can’t move on with out him

Sorry for my bad English and sorry for long

I write these with the tears in my eyes…
Hurting a lot…

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❤Natashka❤ offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

oh…. sounds really afwul… I dont quite understand ur parents reasons for making u stay at home and not be in love but I’ll try…. perhaps they r scared of u growing up… they dont want to loose u and it sounds like they dont trust ur bf… I think maybe u should show ur parents how happy u r with him and how nice he is and earn their trust :)

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I don’t understand all the drama. Your parents can’t prevent you from living your life if you are independent. Make your choices. Make your mistakes. Take your risks. Learn from it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

makelove wrote:
How can you let go of what your parents think?

if you where me and have some oneyou love do you let it go?

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 995 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

❤Natashka❤ wrote:
oh…. sounds really afwul… I dont quite understand ur parents reasons for making u stay at home and not be in love but I’ll try…. perhaps they r scared of u growing up… they dont want to loose u and it sounds like they dont trust ur bf… I think maybe u should show ur parents how happy u r with him and how nice he is and earn their trust :)

well im doing all my best to show them how much he cost for me,and how happy im with him but they dont care

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 hours, 35 minutes after post)

-if parents had it there way they would never let go of there children
-if i had it my parents way i would go parting nor will ever leave home
-but that is what ur parents want and not what you want
you see what your parents want for you, you should take into consideration but it shouldnt be more than like advise, whatever my parents tell me i take into consideration , i take it as an advise but the choice remains totally in my hands…

this is ur life not your parents, parents get to advise you but in the end you are the one holding the pen, you are the one writing your story, you are the one that gona suffer not them…

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Unnamed Desire offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Miami, FL, US | 3 months ago (13 hours, 52 minutes after post)

how can your parents not want you to be in love with someone? thats not possible

dont let him go theres no reason to lose him if you guys love each other then let that guide you through the day

theres nothing bad with staying home use that time to think of something to give your boyfriend or talk to him online or something

as for the not being able to go out you could tell your parents how you feel and discuss with them a curfew or something another thing you can do is say that you are an independent person and responsible enough to have fun outside the walls of the house

thats all i got hope i helped

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 995 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (14 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Unnamed Desire wrote:
how can your parents not want you to be in love with someone? thats not possible

dont let him go theres no reason to lose him if you guys love each other then let that guide you through the day

theres nothing bad with staying home use that time to think of something to give your boyfriend or talk to him online or something

as for the not being able to go out you could tell your parents how you feel and discuss with them a curfew or something another thing you can do is say that you are an independent person and responsible enough to have fun outside the walls of the house

thats all i got hope i helped

Thanks,yes they dnt want me to be in love.. ilove him with all my heart..

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HARVARDgirl!! :) offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 196 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 hours, 47 minutes after post)

did u copy & past ur shout for “who i don’t know his name!!!!!!!!!” ?!??!?
well i said,do PRETEND u don’t love him anymore…i myself prefer 2 be prisoned rather work 22 hours per a day….but it’s down 2 u…u can choose…

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 196 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (15 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Hi, I’m sorry you are having a rough time. If you are in love with him, then tough **** for your family. They are just going to have to deal. Don’t leave him cause of your parents. This is YOUR life not theirs. Don’t let them ruin or take away anything that matters to you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (15 hours, 31 minutes after post)

~Nat~ wrote:
Hi, I’m sorry you are having a rough time. If you are in love with him, then tough **** for your family. They are just going to have to deal. Don’t leave him cause of your parents. This is YOUR life not theirs. Don’t let them ruin or take away anything that matters to you.

Well said Natalie, Well said.

U have to understand, living4you, ur parents want the best for you and if your’re 15, 16 or younger then that, well I can understand where they’re coming from. U see, living4you, they don’t want anything bad to happen to you, like pregnancy. That wouldn’t be a good thing at that age, or even 17, or 18. Try and focus more on school and secondly your boyfriend. You know, if it is true love, it can withstand any obstacle. And true love would only have your best interest at heart. If this boy really loves you, he’ll look after you to make sure no harm ever comes your way, and encourage the both of you to make the right choices.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months ago (17 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Don;t let him go. How soon can you get married?

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 995 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (18 hours, 11 minutes after post)

HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
did u copy & past ur shout for “who i don’t know his name!!!!!!!!!” ?!??!?
well i said,do PRETEND u don’t love him anymore…i myself prefer 2 be prisoned rather work 22 hours per a day….but it’s down 2 u…u can choose…

Yes i copy it and paste it so i can take some other advice did i do something wrong harvardgirl?

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (18 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Don;t let him go. How soon can you get married?

1year and 9mounths and im married :)
and im going to go living as far as i can :)
And no one is going to stop us !!

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months ago (19 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Good. Hold on to that!

Does your bf love you? How old is he?

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (19 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Good. Hold on to that!

Does your bf love you? How old is he?

yes im sure 100% he love me.
i talk to him yesterday and he told me to get married as soon as possible,and i told him to go lives far as we can,so no one decide for us what we do and
No one is going to stop us now..
His 18 years old.

His a wonderful person and a person that i can trust.
I wish that days pass fast!!
we have to work both of us so we will have money till know just only work him,beacuse rightnow im unemplyed.

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HARVARDgirl!! :) offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 196 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 day after post)

of course not!my friend…u know when i was reading ur post on his page i felt guilty so i didn’t read it compeletly…i just wanted 2 know is that the same problem we were talking about or not…

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HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
did u copy & past ur shout for “who i don’t know his name!!!!!!!!!” ?!??!?
well i said,do PRETEND u don’t love him anymore…i myself prefer 2 be prisoned rather work 22 hours per a day….but it’s down 2 u…u can choose…

Yes i copy it and paste it so i can take some other advice did i do something wrong harvardgirl?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

At some point you need to take these matters into your own hands. Your parents fell in love…they had you. At some point you must leave the nest and do for your self and your love. I can’t say if now is that time but I can say at some point you must follow your heart. Good Luck, whatever you decide :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Eddieee wrote:
At some point you need to take these matters into your own hands. Your parents fell in love…they had you. At some point you must leave the nest and do for your self and your love. I can’t say if now is that time but I can say at some point you must follow your heart. Good Luck, whatever you decide :)

Thanks alot for your help!!

HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
of course not!my friend…u know when i was reading ur post on his page i felt guilty so i didn’t read it compeletly…i just wanted 2 know is that the same problem we were talking about or not…

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HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
did u copy & past ur shout for “who i don’t know his name!!!!!!!!!” ?!??!?
well i said,do PRETEND u don’t love him anymore…i myself prefer 2 be prisoned rather work 22 hours per a day….but it’s down 2 u…u can choose…

Yes i copy it and paste it so i can take some other advice did i do something wrong harvardgirl?

Yea i know..
but thanks my friend

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Ravi offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 days, 10 hours after post)

Hi friend, where is your place and your boyfriend place?
Better talk to your boyfriend and his parents about your marriage.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

Ravi wrote:
Hi friend, where is your place and your boyfriend place?
Better talk to your boyfriend and his parents about your marriage.

why?
iS there something wrong?
We are from both MALTA.

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