God is never there - Help.com

*hugs

maybe the problem is that you think you’re the nicest person there ever was, you think you never do anything wrong.
if you’re expectations weren’t so hard then life would seem better.
obviously your friends death must have been horrible,
but blaming God seems like an excuse.

prehaps your pain isn’t so bad in comparison to others.
maybe you could help those seriously in pain,
and in doing that you yourself will be healed.

god doesn’t just answer sometimes you have to work and the answer just appears.

I don’t think it is Gods fault. Nor should you think it yours. We are all tested. You need to hold on. When you least expect it things will turn around.
))))HUGGS((((

This may sound really preachy, but everyone has second thoughts. There’s nothing you can really do but have blind faith. You’ll pull through somehow. You just have to see the good in life. Life may really suck but at least you are still alive to see better days.

heya, first off, HUGS. you HAVE been through a lot and you may now feel so lost. i don’t know the answer as to why God is not there for you, as you said. But i can suggest few things to what u can do…listen to some P&W songs for an hour maybe. get your mind off things.
you say that you’ve done a lot of charitable things, have been good to others - are you happy doing these? sincerely? you can’t do these things just to please God, you need to be happy doing them, too. i’m sorry if i’m wrong…
also, there must have been good things that have happened in the past three years?

hope you’ll be okay soon!:)

You need to turn this around, you only get one shot at this life and you need to fight for your right to be happy. All you can do is try grow and make yourself stronger. Or you could give up, but why would you do that when you can make yourself happy again, and know it was all you? Know in your heart of hearts it was entirely your strength as a person that got you back standing on your feet?
Maybe God is testing you, maybe he isn’t.
But thats not the point, because if he’s not testing you and there’s no reason for this, that doesn’t mean you should just let it break you. Fight for yourself. Its harder for some people to be happy than others, but that just means you deserve it more. You’ve been through one horrible time, but thats all the more reason for you to want to pull yourself out of this. Because why did you have all this happen to you when others breeze through life carefree? That’s not fair.
So challenge that, no one is fated to be unhappy, there are people that deal with horrors every day but they look for the little things and at the end of the day they can still smile. So to hell with whatevers causing this horrible stream of events for you. Who cares if there’s a reason?
Its your life, yours. And yes obstacles thrown in your path are out of your control, but how you react to them, whether you fly past them or trip and fall is completely up to you!

You breath in hopes that you will see better days.

You love helping others so this is whats happening. Your one of the good ones in this world we live in. And God is testing you, he wants to know if you have faith by putting all these things on your back to see if youll start complaining (wich you obviously just did) look you might not be getting what you want now but you were a while ago. I mean what did you say you had A new car you were in a band and you had a best friend you could talk to about everything. You were rich in friends (1 friends you can talk to about anything counts as 1000 friends) And rich in life. So now bad times are happening because everybody goes through bad times everybody. Like me my life was going alright for da most part and then My brother went to Juvy and hes going to be there for 8 years and we had to move and I lost my best friend and in 3rd grade I lost da love of my life (wich I still love and am trying to go out with) those things happened not at da same time but spaced out. Look its either you have a great life when your yung and then you grow up and it sucks or its that you have an Ok life you whole life and nothing major happens or its that you have really good and really bad times repeatedly. So dont complain about whats happening. Embrace it. Your friends are in heaven now. Be happy for them theyre away from this selfish world. And you band. Well if they dont help yu with your best friend situation then its not worth even being in da band. If they dont know that you feel bad that your friend died then tell them thats why youve been so moody and stuff im sure theyll understand. Well your car got totalled I cant really tell you a good thing there. Was it a hybrid?. I mean think about it what did it help you do and what things can you still do even though you dont have it anymore. And your boyfriend well any stu pid re tarted dum as guy that doesnt appreciate a girl shouldnt deserve a great girl like you I mean you help people Aloot from what I read. So dont feel bad he cheated feel good you found out. And the near death experience well god did that so that you would wake up embrace life i mean look outside sit on the grass go to the park watch a movie travel somewhere do something because every second spent doing nothing is a second youll never get back.

No problem anytime you need help just ask me I love helping people too Ive just never found a place to volunteer to help people.

k hey I saw yur pix yur **** gorgeous so dont worry bout da guy yu lost yull find another 1 like I said yur one of da good 1s. And **** yur 1 in a million. How old r yu?

Maybe there is no god.

If I may offer a few words of helpful intent…A few years back I was going through a time where things seemed to be falling apart in my life. I too had been what I considered to be a good person, went to church, had a gf, a good supply of money, etc. However seemingly over night that all changed, everything was turned upside down. I felt very confused and totally alienated by God. I remember lashing out at God, doubting my faith in him, questioning if he even existed. This feeling of spritual abandonment lasted for quite some time. Years past…yes years! I searched high and low for the answer that would turn everything around but ‘it’ never came. As a final resort, I turned inwards, within myself to look for the answer. I found it almost immediately. My total perception of who I thought God to be was found largely to be untrue. My previous understanding about God was that he existed somewhere ‘out there’ perhaps up in the heavens. Whenever I needed him I was suppose to pray and seek him out for help. I now KNOW that God is found within myself. Not only is he found within myself, I am a piece of him. My biggest problem for years of struggle was in thinking that I was separate from God. Quietly, patiently, and faithfully God waits within each and everyone of us to acknowledge his humble precence deep within our hearts. Once acknowledged he will speak to you. Maybe he already has but you haven’t heard his voice. I know this may sound weird, and I agree. But to go a little farther with this thought, the voice that is God’s is a voice that most of us know. You know the one that speaks to you when you are confronted with a choice that may challenge your personal integrity or morals. The one that says you should have done this because you knew it to be the right decision. That is the ‘Voice’. Spend some time listening to it, you may be surprised at what it has to say. It certainly won’t ever lead you astray.
“…and some will say the kingdom of heaven is here or lo it is there. But I speak the truth, the kingdom of heaven is within you.”–Jesus

Seriuz wrote:
k hey I saw yur pix yur **** gorgeous so dont worry bout da guy yu lost yull find another 1 like I said yur one of da good 1s. And **** yur 1 in a million. How old r yu?

Yes she’s gorgeous but whoah down pal. Chances are 1 in 50 that she’s in your state (if you are in the U.S.) and 1 in 100,000,000 she’d be anywhere close :P (unless you are thinking bout a distance relationship. Anyways, yes, she is gorgeous ;P.

So you too are bout to go into college eh love struck?

Lovestruck wrote:

(>'’)>~~~Kyle wrote:

Seriuz wrote:
k hey I saw yur pix yur **** gorgeous so dont worry bout da guy yu lost yull find another 1 like I said yur one of da good 1s. And **** yur 1 in a million. How old r yu?

Yes she’s gorgeous but whoah down pal. Chances are 1 in 50 that she’s in your state (if you are in the U.S.) and 1 in 100,000,000 she’d be anywhere close :P (unless you are thinking bout a distance relationship. Anyways, yes, she is gorgeous ;P.

So you too are bout to go into college eh love struck?

boys boys calm urselves.
yeah im going to college y?
seruiz a lady never tells her age lol
and kyle i dont do long distant relationships anymore

I know, my first paragraph was in response to Seriuz :D. I forgot….but what are you aiming for in college (degree-wise).

Na yur older dan Me N i no yur 17 cuz yyu luk exactly like my friend. But im not interested Im 15 and completely lovestruck already by diz gurl (read my posts) N I thought gurls dont say their agae after turning 25 not 15