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Maaaaaaaaann.
Love, you need to learn of to ignore her.
I mean seriously.
Like mum here stood there and went on a twenty minute long rant about how improper and somewhat immoral washing dishes with my left hand is .
All you have to do is stand there listen agree and tell them yes they’re right and then turn around and do whatever you want.
Don’t let little things get to ya.

no. Your dead wrong. I can explain why.

Do you have a roof over your head?
Do you have food in your house? (whether is what you want or not)
Do you have a room?
Do you have clothes? (Whether their what you want or not)
THe list could go on and on and on…

Your how old? 14? Grow up! Get over it or jus sit and complain! he is your mother and loves you with all her heart. She only wants the best for you. ANd about the things “You want”, do you think she got all the things she wanted when she was younger? I highly doubt that and i wouldnt believe you if you told me because i bet she would say differently.

I seriously hate seeing kids like you. Learn to respect the fact that you at least have a place to live, eat, sleep and be loved by whom ever wants to love you. They are the adult. They own the house and you have no say in that.

And this “All you have to do is stand there listen agree and tell them yes they’re right and then turn around and do whatever you want.” Is complete CRAP! WHy would you treat your parents like dirt? DOnt you realize that they go to work everyday to make money to support their family??? YES that involves you!

Get over yourself. When you are OUT OF THE HOUSE then you can make your own decisions and do what YOU WANT. Until then.. complain.. how about that? See where that gets ya.

Keckers wrote:
Maaaaaaaaann.
Love, you need to learn of to ignore her.
I mean seriously.
Like mum here stood there and went on a twenty minute long rant about how improper and somewhat immoral washing dishes with my left hand is .
All you have to do is stand there listen agree and tell them yes they’re right and then turn around and do whatever you want.
Don’t let little things get to ya.

You need to grow up as well. Ignore your parents? Talk about improper! Learn to respect what you have or else it will be gone.. dont believe me? Then dont change.

oh AND! There is a HUGE beyond HUGE difference in stading up for yourself and listening to your parents…

~willard~ wrote:

Keckers wrote:
Maaaaaaaaann.
Love, you need to learn of to ignore her.
I mean seriously.
Like mum here stood there and went on a twenty minute long rant about how improper and somewhat immoral washing dishes with my left hand is .
All you have to do is stand there listen agree and tell them yes they’re right and then turn around and do whatever you want.
Don’t let little things get to ya.

You need to grow up as well. Ignore your parents? Talk about improper! Learn to respect what you have or else it will be gone.. dont believe me? Then dont change.

I don’t disrespect them ever, miss.
:D
My mother’s my mother.
She picks fights if I’m stir the soup clockwise or counter clock wise.
It’s when she’s being impossible.
That’s just when I nod my head agree with her and then do things my way.

BrokenDreams. wrote:
No.
Okay, I respect her.
I love my dad more than anything. And my mom MAKES MY WHOLE FAMILY DEPRESSED.
YOU DON’T GET IT?
SHE USE TO BEAT MY SISTER.
Yes, I understand I have a roof over my head, food, ect.

And if she loved me soooooo much, she wouldn’t yell at me for everything I do.
I don’t do anything wrong.
She’s threaten me, called me names.
Says that she can’t stand being around me. And what the hell did I do?
Nothing.
You don’t know what it’s like being with her. She makes me cry EVERY SINGLE DAY…

Then tell her that. DOnt yell at me becuase YOU didnt put more details into your post. I stand by my word. Learn to respect the things you have or you WILL LOSE THEM ALL!

Keckers wrote:

~willard~ wrote:

Keckers wrote:
Maaaaaaaaann.
Love, you need to learn of to ignore her.
I mean seriously.
Like mum here stood there and went on a twenty minute long rant about how improper and somewhat immoral washing dishes with my left hand is .
All you have to do is stand there listen agree and tell them yes they’re right and then turn around and do whatever you want.
Don’t let little things get to ya.

You need to grow up as well. Ignore your parents? Talk about improper! Learn to respect what you have or else it will be gone.. dont believe me? Then dont change.

I don’t disrespect them ever, miss.
:D
My mother’s my mother.
She picks fights if I’m stir the soup clockwise or counter clock wise.
It’s when she’s being impossible.
That’s just when I nod my head agree with her and then do things my way.

Well then this is what i have to say to you…

Obviuosly she has some mental issues and it sounds like she might have a little Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. If you dont know what it is, look it up because she sounds like it alright.

All this seems like the most important stuff in the world right now. In a few years you will look back and realize that 90% of the stuff that upsets you will make sense. The trick is to get through the next few years with your sanity. Your mom is human and doing the best she can. As kids we think our parents are supposed to be perfect, but they’re not. They’re human like you. What you are experiencing is temporary. Just don’t take everything as as assault.