Help help: Sadness..Why is it so? - Help.com

We all are sad from time to time. That is how we know to love the good times. Change your routine. Do something for yourself…something fun :)

Are you sure you have no inbalances?If you have no reason to be sad and nothing in your life is making you sad then it is time you seek help.There is help out there for you.You probably need some blood work done.Do not try to go this alone.You sound like you need someone outside your family in the medical field to help find your problem.If it is a chemical inbalance then it will not get any better without medicine to get your system back in order.You will not know until you get help.Like you said your children need you so do it for them.It happens to a lot of people and you are not alone.Reach out and let someone help you. I wish you the best.

maggiemay0 wrote:
Are you sure you have no inbalances?If you have no reason to be sad and nothing in your life is making you sad then it is time you seek help.There is help out there for you.You probably need some blood work done.Do not try to go this alone.You sound like you need someone outside your family in the medical field to help find your problem.If it is a chemical inbalance then it will not get any better without medicine to get your system back in order.You will not know until you get help.Like you said your children need you so do it for them.It happens to a lot of people and you are not alone.Reach out and let someone help you. I wish you the best.

Thank you for that, but I have no insurance to cover the fees that my doctor want to charge me up front, any ways around that??

Do you have a clinic in your area or a planned parenthood if so seek theae out and maybe you can get help there,it will be a start.If nothing else call the hospital in your area and see if they have any answers to where you can go for assistance.There is surely something somewhere where you can get the help you need.you need to change doctors if this is how he is.Sounds like he is in it for the money.he could of least help you to find a way to get your bloodwork done.Look under clinics or planned parenthood in the yellow pages and see what you can find there.I really do not know what state you are in and what they have to offer in the way of assistance.If nothing else go online and try to google it for your state and see what you come up with.

It’s also possible that something is bothering you, but it’s buried so deep that you aren’t aware of it. Has something happened lately that you bottled up? Maybe something happened a long time ago but something recent brought back the memory?

I’ll give you an example. A dear friend of mine was accidentally shot and killed when I was in college. For years afterward, I would mysteriously get depressed around the time of his death. Consciously I would forget that he died around that time of year, but a part of me remembered, and I would get depressed. Eventually it always struck me, “Oh crap! This is when David died! That’s why I’m depressed.”

Issues that are bottled up or buried deep ALWAYS pop out and cause trouble, but sometimes they do so in ways that are seemingly unrelated to the issue that is causing the problem. Depression is one of the most common ways that these buried issues surface. If this is the case, I hope you can figure out what the problem is and solve it. Regardless of the cause, I hope you feel better soon.