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move on?

Yeah…too much of an age difference

Cell wrote:
Yeah…too much of an age difference

what..did you just say that’s too much of an age differen? or are u jokin?

earm no cell there isn’t to much of a age difference. but i have to say people these das use the word ‘’love'’ to much its lost all its meaning and if a guy is switching from girl to girl every day or so that to me personaly means he isn’t ready for a relationship, unless you count a relationship to be a week or so he isn’t worth it. i personally like a girl who is 5 years older than me, iam 19 and she’s 24, iam in the same situation as you. i saw her i thought wow she’s beautiful and i got to no her and yea i really like her but for me and majority of people its to early to see if its love as you will never know some1 truely till you go out with them and be with them majority of the time. i suggest you just forget about him and move on, take up a new hobby to take your mind of him ino your 1st ‘’LOVE'’ is hard to get over but you will realise when you find that special some1 that that wasn’t love it was just lust

well if you wait, and u date him, who says he wont cheat on you with this other firl? or a totaly different 1? guys who hop girls to girls cant be trusted until they realise what they are looking for in a girl. he doesn’t deserve your respect at this point in his life.

well i am so sorry but i think you should move on..no point in waiting..i know you think its hard for you to get over this but believe me its not. i have just been through this and i thought i will never be able to get over him. but i am fine now.

this is not love..even if it is, it’s just one sided.

It’s like gr. 9 and gr. 12 - at that age it is too much of a difference.

I have to agree with Cell, Especially in terms of (no offense) your young age, Hearts break and hearts mend back together, So you have to learn to find that balance between your head and your heart, and the sooner you find that balance the better off you’ll be for future relationships. Not to mention that it’s a great sign of maturity, that the right guys find attractive, along with the bad ones, so be careful

hes playin you like a dog.. hes trying to keep you interested so hes got a girl close and a girl far.. hes tellin you he loves you to keep you there… and then when hes away hes gonna go be with the other girl… if he cares about you he should forget about the other girl… tell him that and hell be forced to figure it out for himself… and decide what he wants to do without keeping you on the line to get more attatched.. good luck

Stay far away from him.

just be strong! i know its easier said than done but i know you can try. and you are pretty! i am sure any guy would love to have a partner like you.you just need to wait for the right one.

love.