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Am I being conceited..?

I’m 17, but somehow I’ve managed to live all those years without having a single crush, my first kiss, and I have never been asked out or anything.

I’ve known a certain guy for around 4 years now, and we became friends a little over a year ago. Lately, however, I get the feeling that this friend of mine may have a crush on me. He’s never done anything too obvious, but… A few months ago he abruptly began asking me more about my interests and hobbies, then later I noticed that he also began to talk with me a lot more often and frequently asks me to join in minor stuff (e.g. walk to class together, try listening to a favorite band of his). He also frequently makes jokes or tries to make me laugh somehow, and there has been a case where he cut in between me and another friend of mine (also male, and in case the situation matters it was when I was being taught how to make a paper rose). I don’t think I’m imagining these changes, but am I being too conceited in thinking he might have a crush on me? Especially considering my long no-romance streak?

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JDC offline Verified User (5 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

it seems to me like hes into you……..is the feeling mutual??

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I’m not too sure, but unfortunately I don’t think it is mutual. I enjoy being in his company, and I get the feeling he probably wouldn’t be a bad boyfriend but… I don’t know, despite all he’s done I just don’t feel anything too special towards him.

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JDC offline Verified User (5 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

then try not too spend too much time with him. if he likes you you dont want him to get the impression you like him too. other than that just keep being friends with him and keep things how theyve always been

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patrix offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

seems like he might like you, do you like him in that way? or could you?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

Seems like he might like you. Try not to encourage it or you’ll break his heart.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Oh, alright. Thank you for all your replies. I’ll try to make sure I’m not giving him the wrong impression, although I’m definitely still going to try to remain good friends.

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