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well i have this problem.

i have just started a new school 5 weeks ago. and before that i talkd to this guy who is lets just say one of the guys in the hot guys group and he seemed really nice. apparently he was talking me up to the year saying i was hot and stuff before i came. but when i came he totally ignored me and him and his friend were being horrible to me and they still are. but this guy still talks to me on msn and seems heaps nice but i dont know. i just found out that he doesent like me at all and says badd things behind my back. i really badly want to be friends with him but im scared he’ll be a jerk and ignore me or say something nasty to my face. but i have been givin him dirtys because his friends were paying me out. what should i do??

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ADmay offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

why waste your time on someone like that? if you are new to the school and he actually cares for you at all then he wouldnt be ignoring you and letting his friends treat you so horribly. sounds to me like he is just too full of him self and cares too much of what other people might think of him. you dont deserve to be treated like that. really just try and find some people that you can actually trust. and who treat you right.

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funnyfreak offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

yeah dont waste your time with him at all. if he cant accept you around his friends he doesnt deserve you. you can do so much better than that. a guy for you will want to share you with his friends and always be there for you and not be a jerk to you. im sorry hes bein a, well yeah you know fill in the blank. lol

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ATearFromHeaven offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

he totally has a crush on you, but i agree with ADmay and funnyfreak1_

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