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Should going off to college change the way you feel about that person? Because that’s what happend to the guy that I like. He went to college and told me college changed him….I know it changes people when they go off to college but FEELINGS for someone?! What excuse is that?!

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signmycast 7 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

It really can though.
It really, really can.
It’s a whole different world for some people.
Many only discover WHO they are at college..

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

:(
He knew I loved him….he told me that he found out he really didnt love me….when the day before he left me a message saying he loved me on my phone! He used me!!!

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hayley*mari 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

thats lame. being apart for a while should increase feelings for someone. don’t take this too hard, but he is prob just using college as an excuse for the breakup.
he’s not worth your time.

love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Thats what I though Hayley…
Thanks. Sigh

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

We even had plans for me to go to his college in two years!!!

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Stoli 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

You’ll understand once you get to college… Everyone wants to be single in college. Learn who you are, meet and date people, try to figure out the type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I still hate him for doing what he did!

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Stoli 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

love_lost wrote:
I still hate him for doing what he did!

That’s understandable.

Look at the bright side, you are now free to date and flirt with every guy you meet.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

sorry to say, but sometimes it can. it might change their frame of mind and make them make new decisions.

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (49 minutes after post)

I’m not that kind of girl….but w/e

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Stoli 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

love_lost wrote:
I’m not that kind of girl….but w/e

What person doesn’t date? You are the kind of girl that stays single forever? How’d you get a boyfriend in the first place?

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

No, I meant I’m not the type to flirt. haha

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love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

And, he wasn’t my bf.

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hayley*mari 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

is he dating someone else?

love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

How should I know? I’m not talking to him about what were doing anymore. I only message him if I need help with my poetry.

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hayley*mari 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

well if you were never REALLY dating him, and he only told you that he loved you, he might not feel like taking back what he said is a big deal. since nothing was official. He prob doesn’t even realize how torn up about this you are. saying you love someone, and actually commiting to a person are two different things. easier said than done. easier broken off too when nothing was done in the first place

love_lost 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

oh….But he does know how torn I am. I told him some things that he feels horible about so he does know

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