Love help: how do i stop thinking about my ex? - Help.com

if you love her, let her go, if she loves you, she’ll comw back

what if i actully know she loves me? even now!? but she still wants space?

maybe write her a letter to tell her how you feel, if she still doesnt want to get back with you then let her go, its over

ive wrote her a letter, and, im not the type of guy to do that, but i did! about a week after we split! she showed alot of her freinds and it neva helped so i gace up! but i recently had a family member of hers toll me to help, cos shes such a reck….and still loves me! even tho she personly says she just wants space…..! i did actully give up till they spoke to me, now theres a slight chance again for me….but how long does a guy wait…i dont think ive been treated fair, i did everything i could for that girl since…. and she wants me but is to messed up to make a valid descion….

You have lost her. Move on.

Use what you have learned for your next relationship.

http://ca.dating.personals.yahoo.com/…

if you feel like you can’t move on, I’d say give it more time. like nikki said, she’ll come back if she still loves you.

i really cant move on! ive tried, cos i felt i had to and it didnt work! i love the girl……. and if i dont get her back, i dont think il ever be the same person again.

Sometimes love just isn’t enough, even if the two people love each other. Believe me, I’m dealing with a similar situation now.

There is basically nothing that you can do. If you give her space, she may come back; but if you pursue her, you will never get her back. It’s a rough position to be in, but try to accept it.

As far as getting over someone, the only thing that works is time. It will hurt like hell at first, but slowly things will get better. Again, I’m going through the same thing, and it isn’t any fun at all.

Oh, I know what you mean by never being the same. I feel like a part of me died for good when my relationship ended Tuesday. I don’t think that part will ever come back.

yeah exactly, thats how i feel! its just cos i live in a small town aswell…its inevitable im going to see her…..and when i do, my heart drops in to my stomach, and i just feel sick and start crying! its hard as well because im a very very strong bloke, but when it comes to my emotions im very weak. no fun…..!