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i have fear to do anything?

And putting myself ideal is the end of life.

I am not able to decide. What to do or not?

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

my friend all you need to do is start small and you can do whatever it is you want.Don’t wait,don’t wait the excellent opportunity(there is not forever)do it just right now.we all only have one life,either success or fail.there is nothing to worry about,you are you you know you not somebody else know.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

yoursunlight wrote:
my friend all you need to do is start small and you can do whatever it is you want.Don’t wait,don’t wait the excellent opportunity(there is not forever)do it just right now.we all only have one life,either success or fail.there is nothing to worry about,you are you you know you not somebody else know.

i know everything, but not able to accept.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

affermative wrote:

tricky wrote:
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thanks

no prob, you just take care

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

My previous boss had a sign on his desk and it read “Ya Gotta Wanna” and that is all you need in everything phase of life. What drives the average person to go forward, it integrity, pride and a willingness to be all they can be. It takes a good sense of who we are to go forward and do whatever it takes to bring ourselves full circle.

Remember: We are not humans having a spiritual experience, we are spirits having a human experience. Make the most of it.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Genesis721 wrote:
My previous boss had a sign on his desk and it read “Ya Gotta Wanna” and that is all you need in everything phase of life. What drives the average person to go forward, it integrity, pride and a willingness to be all they can be. It takes a good sense of who we are to go forward and do whatever it takes to bring ourselves full circle.

Remember: We are not humans having a spiritual experience, we are spirits having a human experience. Make the most of it.

thanks

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Take care, you can go forward and be your best.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Genesis721 wrote:
Take care, you can go forward and be your best.

I am trying for a long time, but nothing has been done.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Trying without a goal is like fishing with no rod. Have you made a short list of things you want to do? Just begin by taking short walks everyday. Oh making calls to friends that you have not heard from in a long time. Have you taken an interest in how to look better to yourself? These are only suggestions to help you.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Genesis721 wrote:
Trying without a goal is like fishing with no rod. Have you made a short list of things you want to do? Just begin by taking short walks everyday. Oh making calls to friends that you have not heard from in a long time. Have you taken an interest in how to look better to yourself? These are only suggestions to help you.

but realy i don’t want to do? I love to do, but something stop me every time

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

President Roosevelt once said: “You have nothing to fear but fear inself”.

“Something stops every time?” Every thing you want to do can become a habit just as not wanting to do anything. The mind always remembers what it did in the last 24 hours.

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Genesis721 wrote:
President Roosevelt once said: “You have nothing to fear but fear inself”.

“Something stops every time?” Every thing you want to do can become a habit just as not wanting to do anything. The mind always remembers what it did in the last 24 hours.

what should i do?

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Regina, SK, CA | 3 months ago (6 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Hello, Do you care to talk about it? In order to help yourself you have to pinpoint the problem… and granted it is most likely several problems and it just seems to be piling on top of you, right?

Well let’s narrow it down abit, and just focus on a problem that isn’t so daunting… okay? Now do you care to talk about it… maybe we can come up with some better ways to cope and manage through this together… does this sound doable?

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 hours, 38 minutes after post)

srnityblu wrote:
Hello, Do you care to talk about it? In order to help yourself you have to pinpoint the problem… and granted it is most likely several problems and it just seems to be piling on top of you, right?

Well let’s narrow it down abit, and just focus on a problem that isn’t so daunting… okay? Now do you care to talk about it… maybe we can come up with some better ways to cope and manage through this together… does this sound doable?

I don’t know that i want to solve it or want to live as it’s going on.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

What exactly are you afraid of?

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affermative offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 20 hours after post)

Dorian wrote:
What exactly are you afraid of?

I
I thing its “faliure”.

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Dorian offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 11 hours after post)

Yeah, I get that. At the moment I’m trying to convince myself that if I don’t try, I fail by default.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

Life can bring us to our knees. Everyone is afraid of failure. But, if we don’t try we miss the chance to discover our own power. To discover who we are and what we are made of. How strong is our character? What is the measure of our integrity? Can we stand the test of time to create a strong person within ourselves and forge through life?

We can take the tests that come our way (sink or swim) or we can forever wonder what life would’ve had in store for us because we didn’t want to take a chance.

The more decisions we make in life the more we developed.

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