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I don’t like doing this.

I don’t like asking for help.

However, I feel compelled to at least explain my life and see the responses I get. I think it might be interesting.

My life sucks. I’ve fought with my mother since I was 12 years old. At 16, it’s only gotten worse. My parents divorced when I was 8 and my dad got sick with lung cancer in late April of 2008 and was dead by July. Since then issues concerning his estate and pension have driven my mother almost to a stroke and so far we have lost over $50,000 fighting a man who should never have been put in control of what little my father had. It is a long story, and too confusing even for us to understand fully.

I have gotten two ipods stolen, and had to pay for each new one. Today, my bike and only means of transportation to school was stolen.

**** happens in my life that I can’t control. And that is something I cannot stand. The efforts I make to try and help my mother go unnoticed because of her stress. Everything else is too obviously beyond my control, and with every theft and every problem I bring myself closer to asking for help. Still, I don’t, as no one CAN really help. This is more a rant, though unlike most rants I do not want attention from it. I am expressing what I do not in real life. My confusion. My stress. Life just plain sucks. Lookin forward to the future.

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Dr. Ralph 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Lots of people are starving and getting raped and beaten… you have it pretty good.

Lots of people are starving and getting raped and beaten... you have it pretty good.

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NikAngelo 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Ralph, yours is an irrelevant comparison. I know that compared to many in the world I do have it extremely good. Relative to where I was, however, I have fallen far and therefore my situation is valid. I would expect you to say what you did to someone who just got broken up with or someone who’s parents “don’t understand them.”

Your comparison was not only unwarranted, it was inaccurate. Simply because someone is beaten or raped does not mean they experience lasting effects. My father died. We have a recurring financial issue that could get very serious very soon.

I do not care for those who offer condolences for every petty problem. I do however take offence to you for replying in such a way. You are quite frankly an idiot, both for posting what you did, and for making me defend myself. I don’t like defending my situation. I don’t like wallowing in that. You should not be on this site.

Ralph, yours is an irrelevant comparison. I know that compared to many in the world I do have it extremely good. Relative to where I was, however, I have fallen far and therefore my situation is valid. I would expect you to say what you did to someone who just got broken up with or someone who's parents "don't understand them." Your comparison was not only unwarranted, it was inaccurate. Simply because someone is beaten or raped does not mean they experience lasting effects. My father died. We have a recurring financial issue that could get very serious very soon. I do not care for those who offer condolences for every petty problem. I do however take offence to you for replying in such a way. You are quite frankly an idiot, both for posting what you did, and for making me defend myself. I don't like defending my situation. I don't like wallowing in that. You should not be on this site.

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NikAngelo 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Yeah I kind of expected this to be a bad idea. If you want to try and prove to me why my situation is invalid please shout me ralph. Otherwise kindly fade away. I am through talking with you.

To conclude, I should not have ranted. I do not like the idea of others knowing about my situation and probably would have hated “aww you poor thing” more than the response from this loser here. Peace.

Yeah I kind of expected this to be a bad idea. If you want to try and prove to me why my situation is invalid please shout me ralph. Otherwise kindly fade away. I am through talking with you. To conclude, I should not have ranted. I do not like the idea of others knowing about my situation and probably would have hated "aww you poor thing" more than the response from this loser here. Peace.

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