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mrmcweird wrote:
yea i do… also, amazing song.

Yeah, really good.

Eddieee wrote:
Seek and you shall find. To each heart beats another. Seek……

I don’t think that “looking” for love really ever worked. It comes to you unexpected. Pops up in the craziest of times. It’ll find me.

SpazzySpizzy wrote:
I have someone i think about and care about.The mere thought of him can brighten my day.I just wish i knew if he felt the same.

Ouch. Yeah, I hate that uncertainty. But it also is annoying and depressing when you don’t have anyone to think about in the first place. I have old loves. People that I still wonder about. But that’s it.

And THEN…
there’s the whole little problem with me. That I haven’t actually liked someone for 3 years. It’s really, really worrying. I only WANT people based on how they look. It’s…really bad. Gotten me into trouble. It’s like I can’t fall in love.

SpazzySpizzy wrote:
Oh i know how you feel.I went a few years without liking someone myself.But as soon as met this guy everything changed.It was kinda based on looks at first but ive gotten to know him a little more.Its really nice to have someone to daydream about ya know.

EXACTLY.

And I don’t have anyone to daydream about…I need to shut down thoughts about my ex so I can finally move on…and I’m actually excited for school to start so I can start looking at someone else and being like, omg you’re good looking..
thing is, it’s always the looks. I”m not shallow, but I never feel anything other than shallow for other guys. Haven’t felt anything REAL, something genuine, for years. It’s disgusting of me.

SpazzySpizzy wrote:
Theres nothing wrong with appreciating a beautiful guy.You can still get to know them and make an emotional connection.Hotness is not a bad thing lol.

Thing is, that I get so distracted by how good looking they are that I can’t seem to notice that they’re not so great people. Like my ex was, er, well, very very good looking, but, okay, he wasn’t THAT bad, but he wasn’t great. Definitely not for me, but I convinced myself just cause of the looks…

Sometimes I wish I was blind for a day and all sorts of guys would be presented to me and I would get the chance to just fall for someone based on their personality…you know?

I want to focus on someone who’s not THAT good looking, like he has to be relatively attractive but I don’t want him to be as good looking as some guys I eye…know what i mean?

Eddieee wrote:
Good is for the heart to hold
In the end we all grow old…

Yes but my heart is not capable of falling in love :/
I know I’m young, but I can’t even seem to really like anyone. It’s either I’ve fallen really really hard or I just want them based on looks. It’s lame.

Eddieee wrote:
You have time to sort this out :)

I know.
But I’m an impatient one. I want to fall in love. NOW! Haha jk. I should focus on school. And life. Argh. I just like to focus on boys :P can’t blame me.

So wait you FOUND YOUR SOULMATE? That’s so romantic (: I’m glad for you.

Eddieee wrote:
Yep! Thanks :)

Luckyyy.

Why am I saying that? I was just telling myself a few weeks ago I didn’t want to bother with romantic stuff till I was older. Still, I can’t help but hope :P

Good luck! Good night (: