who is it that we are trying to be and who is this change for?

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who is it that we are trying to be and who is this change for?

If it’s not for ourselves, then is an attempt even worth it?would you change for her? or for him? why?changing to be loved or to gain someone’s love is only a momentary change..do you agree

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Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

you shouldn’t change for anyone…even if it’s for the good. if you do change for the good it should be for yourself, not someone else.

Help me with: love doesn’t stop here.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

I think we change in subtle ways we don’t realise are happening at the time but I don’t think we should make changes to ourselves to suit other people unless they are shifts that we appreciate would help us to be either healthier or happier.

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Help me with: This is my mothers death notice in the newspapers and I am not even down as being her daughter:

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

if you want to be loved, then changed to be loved, actions are subjective but what you want isnt.

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