Love help: Life sucks .

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Life sucks .

. . . i’m broke . . . .i hate my job but i can’t find another one . . . .i don’t think my girlfriend loves me anymore . . . . .i don’t know what to do . . .it seems like everything i try at i fale . . . .idk . . .maybe i’m just feeling sorry for myself . . .

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TheSailor 1 #
Flushing, NY, US | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Hey, stay at your job, and I’m glad you have one cause I don’t. Economy sucks. Some **** in life is not your fault. Just chill.

And don’t worry about girlfriends. They come and go. I’m sorry.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

You are feeling sorry for yourself, its true.

You have a job. You have a girlfriend.

If you hate your job, look for a new one. Are you honestly and truly looking?

If you’re girlfriend is making you insecure than talk to her. At least if she still loves you, you’ll know and if she doesn’t, you can get on with it.

In every single thing that you lose, a new oppurtunity is gained. No really, I’m not talking out of my *** here - I lost my job last week and honestly, its easy to sink into the “Im a failure” mind set - easy as pie. But it wont get you anywhere except sad and sorry for youself. Its fine to wallow sometimes - deal with the “failure” - but after a while, enough is enough and its time to pick yourself up, break it all down, re evaluate and move on.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i can relate to everything you just wrote. im 19 and goin through all of that, except i dont have a gf.

i have social anxiety, i get paid too little for the horrible job i have.

i hate my life as well,

but i always tell myself that it will get better. you need to do the same and find the positives in your life!

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.Matt. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Life does suck man. I hate my job, and the only person I’ve cared about in 4 years wants nothing to do with me.

But **** doesn’t change overnight, it’s a painful truth. Talk to your girlfriend, there is no point stressing over this, just sit her down, like right now, or as soon as you can, let her know you’re serious, and you want to talk, and just straight up ask her if she still loves you. You will be able to tell if she’s lying or not, and if she doesn’t care for you anymore, you start the long, painful process of forgetting.

When I’m really hating my life; Like when I’m in so much pain that I get in my car and drive as long as I can trying to get myself lost, or hoping I crash into a tree or something, I just try to imagine my life in 2-3 years, how much better things will be… It helps a little.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 hours after post)

Life will change for you if you try to make some changes in your self. Use the time you have now for exercise, although it is probably the last thing you want to do. Exercise produces endorphins, a natural upper. Exercise has been proved to get people out of depression faster than anti-depressants or psychotherapy or a combination. (These work very well, just not as fast, and not free.) You will look better and feel better. However, the exercise needs to be aerobic, get your heart rate up….minimum of 30 minutes a day. Eat nutritious food. If you don’t know what that is, go to the library and look it up. It’s free. Get started. Next, try to get interesting. Who wants to hang around with a dull person? Find some free courses to take. Check the church, community college, community notices. Take anything that has a good teacher. Cooking, plants, working with small tools, book reviews. See if you can help in the local homeless shelter or food bank. Work with people even more down than you are. You never know who you’ll meet that might be a contact for a job. (Jobs don’t drop down from heaven.) Your job now is looking for a job.Don’t spend hours watching TV. It emits positive ions which are depressants. Hang around with people who are positive, not critical. Try praying. Get a sense of God’s awesomeness on the beach or studying the night sky or even in your own home, and then ask for peace and direction and for God to wrap His hand around your heart. Then be quiet, empty your mind, and listen for a response. I doubt that God will speak to you, but you should sense his presence and feel some direction, although it may be very subtle.If you’re really lucky (or attentive), maybe you’ll get some words in your mind. Do this once or a lot. These events in your life do not define you. You are simply off course. Be sure that your expectations of yourself are high. Climbing out of a hole is hard, but you can make it, man. Now you have the tools.

Life will change for you if you try to make some changes in your self.  Use the time you have now for exercise, although it is probably the last thing you want to do. Exercise produces endorphins, a natural upper.  Exercise has been proved to get people out of depression faster than anti-depressants or psychotherapy or a combination.  (These work very well, just not as fast, and not free.) You will look better and feel better.  However, the exercise needs to be aerobic, get your heart rate up....minimum of 30 minutes a day.  Eat nutritious food.  If you don't know what that is, go to the library and look it up.  It's free.  Get started.  Next, try to get interesting.  Who wants to hang around with a dull person?  Find some free courses to take.  Check the church, community college, community notices.  Take anything that has a good teacher.  Cooking, plants, working with small tools, book reviews.  See if you can help in the local homeless shelter or food bank.  Work with people even more down than you are.  You never know who you'll meet that might be a contact for a job.  (Jobs don't drop down from heaven.)  Your job now is looking for a job.Don't spend hours watching TV.  It emits positive ions which are depressants.  Hang around with people who are positive, not critical. Try praying.  Get a sense of God's awesomeness on the beach or studying the night sky or even in your own home, and then ask for peace and direction and for God to wrap His hand around your heart.  Then be quiet, empty your mind, and listen for a response.  I doubt that God will speak to you, but you should sense his presence and feel some direction, although it may be very subtle.If you're really lucky (or attentive), maybe you'll get some words in your mind.  Do this once or a lot. These events in your life do not define you. You are simply off course.  Be sure that your expectations of yourself are high. Climbing out of a hole is hard, but you can make it, man.  Now you have the tools.

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