Love help: Reoccurring dilemma

whaples201

Reoccurring dilemma

There’s a girl I fell in love with, long story short she moved away before anything could happen, but we talked for more than a year and i just cared more and more about her. Turn of events happens, I have a realization after i actually tell her how i felt that this isnt gonna ever be the way i want it so i just said i never wanted to talk again and about deleted her from my life.

Been about 6 months since then, and just recently i opened a twitter account, it got other accounts from my email and one was hers.

Long rant short… should i throw what i said out the window and just talk because she’s there, or should i get back on with my life?

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monkichirmo 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

just because you can’t be together in that way doesn’t mean you can’t be friends.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Depends. Do you still have feelings for her?

If you do, don’t throw her away. Talk to her.See how she feels. She Obviously wants to talk to you, so I wouldn’t throw her away without talking to her for awhile. Who knows? maybe you’ll get the relastionship with her you wanted.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 59 minutes after post)

lionhea wrote:
Depends. Do you still have feelings for her?

If you do, don’t throw her away. Talk to her.See how she feels. She Obviously wants to talk to you, so I wouldn’t throw her away without talking to her for awhile. Who knows? maybe you’ll get the relastionship with her you wanted.

Yea, I still love her and it’s hard not to go a day without thinking about her. But here’s the thing, I said what I said because I wanted to move on and I wanted her to go her own way now that she’s moved away and going to college. But there’s still a part of me that just wants to meaninglessly message her reminding her of how beautiful she is whenever i can get the chance.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

whaples201 wrote:

lionhea wrote:
Depends. Do you still have feelings for her?

If you do, don’t throw her away. Talk to her.See how she feels. She Obviously wants to talk to you, so I wouldn’t throw her away without talking to her for awhile. Who knows? maybe you’ll get the relastionship with her you wanted.

Yea, I still love her and it’s hard not to go a day without thinking about her. But here’s the thing, I said what I said because I wanted to move on and I wanted her to go her own way now that she’s moved away and going to college. But there’s still a part of me that just wants to meaninglessly message her reminding her of how beautiful she is whenever i can get the chance.

So far, what has she said to you? is it possible you two could get together in person and sort things out?

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