girl help: This girl i like and her friend pull a joke on me. - Help.com

If the girl herself was involved, she is playing with you as well(she was part of the joke), that is not nice…it doesn’t mean that u should be mad at her, be nice, but if she in any way liked you in the real sense, she wouldn’t have done that. If she even thought of u being a nice guy, she wouldn’t have brought you into the embarrassment of the joke…again, no need to be angry, mad or anything, be nice to them still, they are people just like all of us.

This is my thoughts…I really hope it is appropriate to the situation.

I agree with hendrik’s post… If the girl you like was involved in the joke then she’s not very nice, specially if she got mad for your reaction. Be civilized about the situation but make a stand that your feelings are not out there for them to be abused. Maybe this girl isn’t worth you investing any of yourself into her. They made a mistake and you may forgive them but this doesn’t mean that you should let them treat you with disrespect.

Sincerely,

Maria

Thank you Hendrik and Holguinaz. They planned the joke out. She says she likes me(but she recently broke up with this other guy), so i’m trying to help her get over him. i continued to be nice to her and her friend they said they just thought of it. im still friends with her friend, but i think the girl i like thinks differently of me, cus im kinda obsessed with her. she says she doesnt, but im not sure of that…

No, no, no!!! Do not be the boy friend on the rebound. You deserve someone who likes you and may fall in love with you for who you are, not someone that will use you to get over another man… Be a friend to her but set some boundaries. Also, women do not find it attractive when you are obsessed or more interested in them than they are in you. Back off a bit, keep yourself busy with hobbies or something of interest, while being her friend. Just don’t invest so much of yourself into her and maybe she’ll realize that there can be more between you two or someone else might come into your life that is a better match for you. If you don’t mind me asking what are you doing that makes them think that you are obsessed with this girl?

high school football started few days ago, so i’ll be pretty busy. i just talk to her a lot. like maybe one or two times a day. i talk to her normally, like i do with my other friends. she probably thinks im obsessed cus she has mono, and im trying to be nicer to her than normal.