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What should I do to get him to spend more time with me?

My boyfriend & I go to the same college but we’re in completely different trades, we’re in Job Corp. Since i’m getting my high school diploma, trade, & driver license i don’t get to see him that often. Sometimes we spend time together but then our friends call us away and then since we’re so **** nice, we go and see what they want.. only problem is we always end up so busy that we don’t have enough time for another. What do i do to get my boyfriend & I to spend more time together without everyone else from pulling us apart?

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elizabeth.ballma offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Simple. You make time for each other. There’s no magic answer for this question. Maybe setting up days that you know you can see each other, and that being your day(s) for one another. It’s a joint effort. Tell you friends, “thanks, some other time,” and spend some TLC with your man :)

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bonsaitree2 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Turn off your phones when you’re together! That way you won’t get dragged away from each other.

It’s hard to balance friend and significant other time, but your friends have to realize that your boyfriend is important to you, so sometimes you will be with him rather than them, and they need to respect that you have your own life.

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