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my boyfriend just broke my heart.

This is my second relationship that ends this way and both of them have been long term. Is there something wrong with me? or maybe just maybe it’s the guy.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Its not you… and its probably not him… It just wasn’t meant to be, both times.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

it’s not just you, it’s the chemistry there. You know, you will be happiest when you are happy with yourself. Its one of my challenges too. God didn’t guarantee us the picket fence and 2.5 kids, but its still worth looking for.

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Gabca offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

You should give more details about the break out, like was he cheeting on you, or all of a sudden he told you it was over ?. Anyways you should know there’s more fish in the water, if you were abe to love twice,why not one more time ?.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Believe me, when relationships end in a failure it can hurt, but if there’s anyone who’s been in this sitation more than me, i haven’t met them yet. I have been in way too many relationships to count and so far every single one has ended… well… less than joyful. i mean, a few of the girls i’m just friends with now, but i’ve been in so many relationships and none of them have really worked out in the end. Two times may feel like a lot, but depending on your age, it’s probably normal to have experienced two break-ups. A lot of people will go through very many relationships before they find “the one”. It may not seem like you’ll ever find Mr. Right right now, but beleive me, he’s out there somewhere and when you meet him your relationship will work out. trust me, you will find a relationship that won’t end in heartbreak one day.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

goodluck in ur 3rd realtionship go a head girl and meet other guy

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Help me with: i tried it it does not work too bad thx anyway
ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 988 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Maybe its not you..maybe its not the guy but its not good for you both.
I Wish you A big goodluck for your 3Rd Goodluck

My boyfriend had 2girlfriends before me one of 8mounths long and the second one less than a 3mounths i think..
and we are going to married in 2years..
So..
Dont worry..
your right one will come..
Goodluck my best friend.

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Help me with: I’m Hurting a lot….
michael.philip offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 month after post)

Lets talk on michael.philips(at)rocketmail.com.Lets see what happens from there

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