Family help: Ok, so i hate my mum. - Help.com

haha i seriously would consider it, but yeah shes annoying… i want out ;]

that sounds really tough. and all your points seem valid. i have to disagree with though with the drinking and (kinda) staying out late. you’re not 18 yet, right?

i hope you don’t expect your mum to be perfect. because really, everyone is a first time parent. while it isn’t excuse for poor behaviour from her part, it’s also an incentive for you to give greater understanding.

have you tried talking to her in a nice and calm context? not during the times when you’re fighting or in an argument or whatever. coz otherwise you both might be prone to emotional outbursts and misunderstanding. talk to her one time, sincerely and calmly, and tell her how you feel. is this an option for you?:)

yeah im not 18 but ur allowed to drink in the home from like 14 and im not talking get drunk just a small drink once in a while like at weddings or birthdays etc.

I dont expect her to be perfect but its not her first time i have an older sister who she loves and is nice to… she just has this disliking to me.

Yeah i have and everytime it starts of normal we end up fighting so it just makes things worse so now i rarely speak to here.

Tell her how you feel about her

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yeah im not 18 but ur allowed to drink in the home from like 14 and im not talking get drunk just a small drink once in a while like at weddings or birthdays etc.

I dont expect her to be perfect but its not her first time i have an older sister who she loves and is nice to… she just has this disliking to me.

Yeah i have and everytime it starts of normal we end up fighting so it just makes things worse so now i rarely speak to here.

lolz, you’ll be surprised how a lot of people may disagree with that. taking even just a ’sip’ starting at 14 years old. :)

it IS her first time. i didn’t mean that you’re a first child. i said, first as a parent. :) children are different too from each other. and kids turn out differently depending on their position among siblings (eldest, middle, youngest).

have you had the chance of talking to your older sister about this? what is her insight on your mother’s relationship with herself and with yours?

yeh my sister thinks that its a mix of both are faults
like my sister is like my mum cause there so close so she ends up siding with my mum. Like my sister blackmailed me cause i told her something that was private and she used it against me also shes really nosey about who i fancy or whatever she even went on my now ex’s bebo to ‘read up on him’ and then she reported everything to my mum and let my mum go on it. so i dont think shes the best person to ask.

Hey, at least she doesn’t pummel you with stuff.
Mine’s temperamental!
:D
I was the type of kid who hated getting all poofed up and dressed in well dressed.
She ended up breaking a vase on my head because I refused to stay still when she was fixing up my mop of unfeasible messy curly hair with a blow dryer.
Ahh.
Mum.
It’s getting progressively worse though.
I wish it wasn’t like this.

I wish you luck.

If you are old enough and can actually afford to move out and take care of your own expenses (all living expenses), move out before your situation explodes into someone being murdered. They way you guys fight, it won’t be long before before it comes to that.

i cant afford it though =[
is there any where esle i could go really?