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i miss my ex so much!

i need some people to tell me i dont need her… :( i feel useles with out her, and i just saw one of her friends out, that helped caused the break up and its just got me really upset again! why do i miss her so much when im so hurt over our break up? :(. just some positive words plz… i really loved her, i know every one says it but i wanted to spend the rest of my life with that girl. arggg

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

how long you have been broke up?
Does shes waching someone else?
What was the problem of breaking up?

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liveambitions offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

What was the cause of the break up and how old are you?

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

im 21! i got too needed, which made us argue, alot of it was to do with her single friends! :(! but before u judge, u know the saying love makes u crazy….well im a firm beliver of that now! ive learnt my lesson! weve been split up around 4 months!

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liveambitions offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

That’s the problem. You got too needy or clingy. Often times, that’ll turn off a girl and vice versa. You gotta be your own person - be independent and self-sufficient. That’s the confidence that girls want to see.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

like i use to be when she met me! i lost it about 2 months in to the relationship :( but im slowly getin it back, i am trying! i do know thats the problem, but i just kinda fell in to it, dunno why.

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liveambitions offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Well…like you said, love can make people crazy. Ok, you know what your problem is, so get on your two feet and be a man. You’ll have girls flocking to you in no time. Girls can sense a man’s confidence, so keep that in mind.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

thanks! even tho i kinda know what the problem is, u just need some1 to tell u sometimes!

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liveambitions offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Yes, I know what you mean. Good luck and remember that life is too short to dragged down by someone else.

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