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i cant do this anymore…

. i see him everyday and now that school has started again… i see him everyday and cant stand it. i wanna just be done with him but i truely think or convinced myself that i…lov him. but i know i dont i just cant say i do and i cant say i dont. how will i know if its just a feeling or its love. he said he has feelongs for me after i told him that i do. so u ask “whats the issue then?” well ill tell you. hes going out with a girl who lives an hour and a half away and they never see each other. theyve been dating for amonth and a hlf but it feels like an eternity. what should i do? dont say to jion a club and talk to someone else cuz it doesnt work at all. everytime i tlk to a guy who seems to have an interest he just reminds me of him. i cnt see myslef with anyone else. i mean, we’d be perfect for each other. he said if he wasnt with the other girl he woulda asked me out already…. idfk….. please give me advice…i dream of him every night and cant stop. my heart hurts when i dnt see him and when i do see him, my heart suffers because because i know he cnt be mine and tht she has him………..

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

have u told him properly how u feel? if u have and he still stays with his gf, id really try and leave him alone! hes makeing it clear if so! i know its very hard, but ur in school wich says to me ur quite young, which means your going to meet alot of amazing guys in the future…..trust me ul forget about him in no time and ul fink what the hell did i ever see in him! just give it time!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

ill try

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Help me with: He was the one i thought of when i heard “u belong with me” on the radio.
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2 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

look hears and example, when i was younger, in school! i liked a girl so much, but she lived away, and only came down in the summer time!i wated for her, and when she was down we started seeing each other for like a week, and she then left me for my older friend! i thought it was the end of the world…i cryed so much, stayed in my room….for like 6 month to a year i wasnt fully rite! that was 6 years ago….! i can tell u now, i was so stupid! ive met so many amazing girls since her that blow her out the water but i never thought i would at the time! trust me ul be fine! remeber what i said, forget him! if he wants u, hel come to u! hope this helps

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

tht helps thanks

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Here’s my advice, (I live in england so things may work differently over here) About 2 years ago when i was at school, i had this relationship with a girl who i thought i “loved” we went out for about 6-7 months when she ended it, i was distruaght and was depressed for about 3-4 months, really didn’t cope very well with it atall. What im trying to say is that relationships at a young age tend too be stepping stones to better relationships in the future and can tend to hurt alot. Im not saying don’t go for it, by all means try your heardest and follow your heart, but if it’s causing too much hurt it’s not worth it. It is hard to move on from people that you love wether you are in a relationship or not. But i no time at all you will be in college, going too clubs, down at a bar and you will meet new people which could become your life partner.

I hope some of this helps, even if it helps you try to get over the pain.
If it doesn’t help, i am sorry.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

dont be sorry cuz it hlped curtbm thanks :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I have the same problem but mine is a little different because I love this girl who dosnt love me back and im so tired of hurting! I know that she dosnt love me and i just want her out of my life because it would just be alot easy that way so maybe you can help me

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