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My mother wants to emancipate me?
[Allow me to preface this by saying that I am currently 15 years old, and will be turning 16 in a few weeks, I live in California, I have wonderful relationships with both of my parents, I have never been abused/gone hungry, I do not want to get married/join the army/whatever, and I do not have a baby. I also wash the family’s laundry, cook meals, and clean the house.]
My mother wishes to have me emancipated so that in case ‘anything should happen to her’ before I turn 18, that I would be able to act as her proper trustee and that I wouldn’t require a guardian. She feels that I’m mature and responsible enough for this to happen, and that my father would consent to this as well. She states that they will continue to provide for me after my emancipation.
However, I’m not sure if this is possible for a few reasons:
1. I have never had a job (and needless to say do not have a reliable source of income.)
2. I have never paid bills, nor do I know how to (though I am more than capable of learning to do so.)
3. I do not wish to live apart from my parents, and even if I did– I do not have a place of my own to live. (Apparently this is required? Am I wrong?)
4. I do not believe this to be a completely valid reason for emancipation?
The reason why I’m asking here is because I’m slightly confused in regard to the emancipation laws. Also, most other sources of advice on this matter deal with minors who come from abusive homes, or simply wish to be emancipated so that they can live away from their parents. (In my case it’s more of wanting to be seen/treated as an adult in legal situations, should they arise in the next two years.)
Well, hopefully I made at least a little bit of sense. So should I agree to get emancipated, or simply tell my mother to wait the two years until I turn 18? Can anyone help?
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