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this must sound lame but…

if ur dad says that i cant go out with black guys and i really like one what should i do and what if hes in seventh grade and im in ninth?

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awamn offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

if you have to ask then you should probably spare the poor boy…odds are you know what you “should” do, or want to do anyway and if the color of his skin is getting in the way maybe you should figure out why that is?

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2 years, 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Stay in your own age group pls..that’s just gross

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lovelove offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

thats rude age is just another # its not like im forty hes 13 and im 14

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (17 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Age has a big part in this, and race is a tricky subject for some. My main issue is that 7th graders are very young and you should want to date boys in your age group.

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (17 hours, 15 minutes after post)

You originally said that you were in 9th grade and he is in 7th. There’s a big difference in emotional age between you and a 13 year old boy. At 13, boys are not very mature and dating girls for them has more to do with impressing their friends. It’s an inescapable fact that having an older girl show interest in him inflates his ego and gives him school yard credibilty with his buddies. Be prepared for the possibility that he might not actually like you so much as a person. It would be much wiser to just stay friends for the next couple of years. If you can both manage that and still be interested in one another when you are both in high school, that’s when you can really consider dating him.

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Andy :) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 2 years, 11 months ago (18 hours, 7 minutes after post)

the best is to stay with your friends, if your going to date a guy, date one who is emotional the same age as you. say a couple grades

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