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What’s there to do on a college school night?

My dorm is about a 10-15 minute walk from the other main dorms, so we’re somewhat isolated. There’s a few parties here and there but they’re with the wrong crowd of people (I just don’t feel comfortable around them is all).

Plus I have class at 830, so I wouldn’t have enough time to recover.

It’s only been 4 days here and I’m bored every night, hanging out with the same people, sketchily walking around the dorm finding something to do.

Would it be considered creepy or sudden if I’m walking with my friends passing the girl’s room and introducing ourselves if their doors are open? (I mean after all, if it’s open, that means they want company right?)

However, when I asked to go, they called me a creeper and I really don’t wanna go solo on this.

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TMan offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

dont be the creeper walking around the dorm.. If you can strike a conversation with these girls dont be expecting anything as they probably arent.. But if you can possibly become friend with them on myspace or facebook or talk to them on AIM or yahoo then maybe hang out with them they may still not be interested but might be looking for a friend.. This gets you in with their lil group and you might be able to get with one of their friends lol.
Or possibly lookin into pledging for a fraternity that will get you known quick if your an active brother. I joined one at my college while i was their pledging was a blast.. Sucked at times and frustrating but was a great way to meet new people and now i have a group of brothers and friends that grows every semester. I go back all the time to party with the brothers and go to private parties its a great experience and if you get it you can always go back to party and have some fun.

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gack46 offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

there are no frats here….

im friends with them on my fb but i find it weird talking to ppl online when i dont know them in real life

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c-eek offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Why don’t you try to get a study group going. It is a great way to get to know other students, without any pressure. Plus, it will be good for your grades.

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TMan offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

well if you have met them.. and are friends with them on facebook then your part way there, try finding out some stuff about them where they are from whats their major, what they do for fun. just try to converse with them either online or in person. I made some friends on FB at college and ended up goin to parties with them later on, if your of age and can drink in your room maybe invite them over for drinks, or go bowling or to the store or for a walk just anything to spend some time with people other than your group.

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