all you need to do is, do your best ^_^ and that’s about it
life never stays the same, sometimes that’s a good thing sometimes a bad thing…
i’m sorry to hear that
well i guess try to handle her screams don’t give her money
and make your dream come true
don’t cry dear
*hugs*
I really dont know why shes doing this to me! She knows ive got debts to pay off to the bank and i want to settle it asap so i could go overseas. This debt is weighing me down such that i couldnt breathe. I didnt even ask for her help. N my dad gives her his whole pay check every month! isnt that enough??????? Poor dad lives with this crazy woman…taking his paycheck and giving him monthly allowances as if he owes her a living.
WHen i told her i hope to go overseas one day, shes like “no, i like to keep the family together here..” wth…theres no family at all, we’re never close, how could she even demand me to tell her my problems when i dont even trust her????
she doesnt care for you, only your money, cut her loose and follow your dreams
if your dad is givinig her money and dont give her ur money too
humans tend to spend as much as you give them ironically :D
if you give them 100$ or 100000$ it’s the same :D
if i ever ask my mom if she is ok with me going abroad she will say no, mothers tend to want there kids around them, that’s like typical to all parents… sometimes you got to do what you got to do :)
sorry to hear that dear
well listen here..no matter what she says you should go for your dream:D cause that worths it:)
never ever give up on anything because of her..
listen here try to live with her as you have to..don’t tell her anything about your plans..just go on with your life..
when the time comes that you can move overseas tellher in the last minutes..
if you ever need someone to talk to i’m here :D
So, Why are you Letting her stand in your way?
Hey thanks. I am just upset that my mom is so different from my friend’s. Ive talked to them and they r so caring and understanding. Mine? urgh.
Im not letting her stand in my way…i have no control over it. She’s my mom afterall. Things are hard to get and she jus makes it even harder.
-deadinthehead- wrote:
Hey thanks. I am just upset that my mom is so different from my friend’s. Ive talked to them and they r so caring and understanding. Mine? urgh.
you’re welcome
darling i always feel that way about my mom too
i guess each person is different..
i never ever had a heart to heart talk with mom… and i’m just so jealous on my friend who can tell anything to her mom…
but guess that’s life
we can choose our friends, but nor our relatives..
we have to try to live with them…
Tell her that Screaming at her kids is very bad parenting
Hi there,
Believe me I know what you’re going through. I’ve been dealing with a mother similar to yours all my life. You are quite young so don’t think this will go on forever, it does get better. My mother and I actually have a decent relationship now, but it took lots of work. In the meantime I urge you to go to this link,
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
it has helped me, and many others who feel like they can’t go on. Please know that you are not alone, that people care, and this too will pass. You have dreams and a future, this is not worth ending your life over.
with love, Anya
ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
Tell her that Screaming at her kids is very bad parenting
I’ve tried for so many years to reason to a point that i know theres no way shes gonna listen…ive fought hard. Nothing worked.
You can always join the Peace corps. They’ll send you overseas for no money. Some creditors can be reasoned with if you explain you’re doing vocational work for a few years.
Sometimes the only answer is just to go.
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I … ^_^
Sounds like the relationship with me and my maw
the only option i see is save some money … IF you can even if its 1 buck a day and move out
until then you and me are forever under our momma’s wrath lol
Ive come to conclude that its useless to explain to her cos we see things differently. Right now, shes mocking at the “money value” ive given to her…cos its too little. So, i basically jus shut the door and still cant believe how that woman look down on that amount.
hope everything works out for you…I’m sorry you feel that way, don’t let her have that control over you..
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well hope things get better.. even if just a little
if you need me , you know where to find me:D
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