You know when bad or unfavorable things happen, and you can’t

♥Rαvєr♥

You know when bad or unfavorable things happen, and

you can’t avoid them or remove yourself from the situation - what kind of things does everyone do to make them feel better or to stop them from feeling worse?

I need a bit of inspiration please if someone/anyone doesn’t mind - Cheers! :)

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Ditzy 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I tend to shut myself away in a fantasy book or film. Some times cooking is also good because I’m not thinking on the situation and I’m out from under foot in another room.

Hope nothing bad has happened *hugs*

Help me with: Good News from Jen & Blake

liberalapproach 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

when u say unfavourable do ya mean honestly bad like selfharm or bad as in embarresment etc

Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

See and embrace the irony…
I might loose my house but i see the upside. It might be a change in scenery most needed…
When things start to go wrong it´s like a snowball.. No use in fighting, i just sit back and watch it all roll downhill..

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♥Rαvєr♥ 105 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Well i’m finally doing better and bad stuff just seems to happen all the time. Stuff I know I need to accept and move on or not let it get to me but its hard. Most of the time its at work - where I can’t walk out or leave the situation so its really hard. And no there is no self harm.

Help me with: So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again.

moonwalk206 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Hello,

I know a way that will absolutley make things better!

Watch the movie, The Secret or read the book of the same name, over and over again!

TheSecret.TV

Also, I believe in GOD, so I pray and I have had prayers answered - not all but some really important ones!

Best of Luck.
S

liberalapproach 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

just an example… well grims idea of irony is great kinda similasr to how i use sarcasm in my daily life constantly just look at bad situations with brand new eyes and you tend to smile and forget.

Ditzy 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
Well i’m finally doing better and bad stuff just seems to happen all the time. Stuff I know I need to accept and move on or not let it get to me but its hard. Most of the time its at work - where I can’t walk out or leave the situation so its really hard. And no there is no self harm.

Any way of changing your job? :) If their being unfair maybe you can blow the whistle or some thing

Help me with: Good News from Jen & Blake

♥Rαvєr♥ 105 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Thank you, only the thing I need help with is when you can’t remove yourself from a situation, which is why I can’t just watch a movie or read a book. Also I tried the God thing, I don’t think I have what it takes because it doesn’t help :(

Help me with: So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again.

moonwalk206 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

I hear you! I was fired from a bad job - which I just couldn’t take anymore! I had already read The Secret once - and prayed - and I was still mad and angry at work and let my boss know it - and got fired. That said, since then I have watched the movie The Secret [in the evenings] and prayed more - and even talked to a counselor and I feel better. Not 100%, but better than I di yesterday and I tink that is progress.

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♥Rαvєr♥ 105 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

aw thankyou makelove that is so sweet!! .. maybe I need to try and remember my password so I can log on, on my phone at work and just speak to all you guys.

Help me with: So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again.

notsosimplesimo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 15 hours after post)

life is life and can be really hard at times but the bad times help you to appreciate the good times . just remember there is always somebody worse off than you , we see them on the news every day , and its not usually the things you have that make you unhappy its normally the things you want . life is too short too worry about things that have happened cos once its happened ya can never go back and change it . so why worry about something ya cant change . live one day at a time cos you ll never get a chance to live that day again so dont waste it x

♥Rαvєr♥ 105 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

Thank you :)

Help me with: So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again.

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