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oh, and in the 2nd pic my arm looks really big, but it is just the angle of the camera.

Grow your fringe out, a straight fringe doesn’t suit you. Maybe go shorter and get some layers.

Frankly, you look way too young to be worry about guys. Other than that, it may be your attitude (or your outgoingness) that scares guys away. How old are you?

My bangs? I tried it a couple years ago and I looked HORRIBLE I am too embarassed to post a pic, but do you mean longer bangs because i am trying to grow them out a bit so i can do more things with them like put them on one side etc. i just am terrifieed of having a naked forehead again

Anonymous wrote:
Grow your fringe out, a straight fringe doesn’t suit you. Maybe go shorter and get some layers.

erm i don’t want to share my age but i can tell you i am in high school, lol yes there are 5th graders that look older than me :/

looks 15 :S. Thats not a bad thing though if you’re older.

Well…since you want opinions, you could try and tan just a little and use something maybe like proactive if it helps the freckles. Not that im shallow, but if u want advice…that’s all i got XD
Confidence is one of the cheapest, easiest things thats a turn on not only for girls, but for guys too. I can’t stand unconfident girls because it lets me know I can never depend on them for anything I need help on.

Brianimal wrote:
erm i don’t want to share my age but i can tell you i am in high school, lol yes there are 5th graders that look older than me :/

Well, if your in high school, then im gonna have to say
No older guys want you because it would be Waay to awkward for them to be with a girl who looks so young and they are prolly lookin’ at the girls with more “curves” if you know what i mean lol.

lol yes i am pretty darn flat… but since that is not fixable.. lol
i have a confident exterior but i am not very confident on the inside. I think i creep people out because i get soo competitive over little things and i have some CRAZY friends and we are all sort of freaks. Another thing is i am not in a group, i have all sorts of friends, and i have never even been in hollister so they are not sure what to make of me since i dont wear little seagulls on my shirts lol

hmmmm maybe you are expecting prince charming but maybe u shuld look 4 someone who makes u happy

ps……….. its not always bout looks

Anonymous wrote:
you lock cute :) a guy would be lucky to have you.

aww thanks :D

mrslick wrote:
hmmmm maybe you are expecting prince charming but maybe u shuld look 4 someone who makes u happy

ps……….. its not always bout looks

i am not looking for mr perfect, NO ONE has ever asked me out, and it seems other girls that are equal to me on the pretty level get tons of guys.
yeah i know its not really about looks, i am working on my overy extrovert personality at the moment but un-like looks i know what to fix about my personality.

ohhhh k well i bet there are guys after u but they are too shy because alot of guys are shy look u shuld just stay in there and i bet there is a boy perfect 4 u who is in the same postion as u and y dont u ask out some boys

Seriously? You think there is something wrong with your looks? Seriously. You are very cute and shouldn’t worry about your looks at all. And some people like freckles!

As far as looking younger than your age, it may be inconvenient now, but you will love it when you are older. When you are 30, you will look 25. When you are 40, you will look 30. You may not care now, but you will then. And your friends will be jealous! Just make sure you use sunscreen when you go outside. With your fair skin, the sun can do a lot of damage and make you look older.

Thanks :) I never thought I was ugly or anything i just wondered why they chose other girls over me and even with guys aside i like to look my best. I like my freckles but all the girls my age have no freckles and are the shade of burnt toast i am just snowflake white with speckles on my face lol.

migratingredtail wrote:
Seriously? You think there is something wrong with your looks? Seriously. You are very cute and shouldn’t worry about your looks at all. And some people like freckles!

As far as looking younger than your age, it may be inconvenient now, but you will love it when you are older. When you are 30, you will look 25. When you are 40, you will look 30. You may not care now, but you will then. And your friends will be jealous! Just make sure you use sunscreen when you go outside. With your fair skin, the sun can do a lot of damage and make you look older.

lol i dont even know why i bothered posting this anonomysly