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Does this girl like me?

I was standing outside my music theory class in college for about 10 minutes and kept noticing this really attractive girl standing across me in the hallway and I couldn’t stop looking at her.

As class started, I sat next to her and asked her something about homework and boom, we started talking back and forth and I like her a lot. After class, I walked her to her dorm and got her number.

She texted me that she’s glad she got to know me. I asked her if she wanted to do something today like walk around campus and chill at the pond. May I remind you, this was a 20+ minute walk but she didn’t mind and we NEVER had an awkward moment, either she asked me questions or I did.

She’s a music major but she said she wanted to go my room and jam. So we walked over, which is a 30 min walk, played guitar together, sat on my bed, and chilled.

Then we got dinner in the cafeteria and I walked her to her dorm and got a hug out of her. What I noticed is that she lifted her leg as she hugged me. Is that indicative of anything?

Maybe this is a stupid question and I just felt like spreading the news, but does she like me?

What should we do the next time I see her? (Maybe the next day?)

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

lifting her leg doesn’t have much to do with it, but if she’s willing to spend time with you she likes you. You should just chill together, and i suggest getting to know her more before you ask her out.

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, replying to the title of the post: Heck yeah dude! lol. She likes you a lot apparently. You play it smooth :D. Beats me where to go from there (i’ve never really had a relationship with a girl personally [supposedly I did for 3 weeks] but it wasn’t genuine to me). Go get her you devil ;P

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gack46 offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

im not gonna ask her out until like 2 weeks and thats if i see her almost everyday

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

gack46 wrote:
im not gonna ask her out until like 2 weeks and thats if i see her almost everyday

The way it sounds to me it’ll be impossible for her to say no.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

too soon to tell

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

well, since you 2 seem to have good chemistry she might. If you like her go for it, if not just enjoy the friendship and see how it ends up. but chances are if you ask her out (if ur interested) she will say yes if not i doubt it will be awkward afterwards, but i would still wait a bit

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I think she may have just done a 180 just like this other girl and ignores me. I texted her last night saying how I was listening to this band she liked, but no response. Maybe it was just too late.

I texted her today asking her how her crew meeting went, I got a response saying it was good, etc etc. I then asked if she wanted to hang out again, maybe come bowling. (My school has an extreme bowling night.)

She got back to me—6 hours later, saying she’s going with some friends so maybe she’ll see me. I asked if she wanted to meet up with some of my friends beforehand to mingle, and it would be good to go with someone as cute as her, but she didn’t say anything back.

I called her around an hour before we left to confirm what’s going on, but she didn’t answer.

What’s her deal? I give up from then on, anymore calls and I’m needy/annoying, which I don’t want to be.

I’ll see her on Tuesday in class so I have that to fall back on. Is she playing hard to get?

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