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I’m not comfortable with my emotions

i hate to cry in front of anyone even my bf of a yr, and i just am not comfortable being anything either than chill or irritated. i feel like anything more than that im being a girl or im being needy and weak
i want to get over that i think its hurting my relationships but how can i just get over it?

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Sometimes when you have to cry, you have to cry. Is like going to the bathroom, you can only hold it for so long but eventually you have to let it go. But when you let it go, it feels so good!!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

One of the best things you can learn is when to cry and when you need help, and to ask for it.

If you have to cry, cry. Trust me, it can sometimes make you feel better, and in the end, make you stronger, not weaker.

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3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

i dont know how to just do that… i feel like its just setting me up for heartbreak or something..
i know its worse not opening up but im just not comfortable

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Could you maybe talk to your boyfriedn about this, and see how he feels?

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