Is it better to be hated than ignored?

dave1971199

Is it better to be hated than ignored?

Someone who hates you feels something but, someone who just ignores must be worse right?

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Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Nah.. I´d rather be ignored than hated…

Help me with: I just realized….

[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

meh. depends. someone people enjoy the attention weather it’s positive or negative.
some would rather be ignored.

i’d rather be ignored than hated.

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Tallula 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I like to be hated and ignored.

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lulzapalooz 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

…I would rather be hated.

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dave1971199 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I was just wondering.

I remember a fellow poster quoted Dr Seuss.

Those that mind don’t matter
those that matter won’t mind

If you’re ignored then how would you know if you matter at all?

Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

dave1971199 wrote:
I was just wondering.

I remember a fellow poster quoted Dr Seuss.

Those that mind don’t matter
those that matter won’t mind

If you’re ignored then how would you know if you matter at all?

I only need to matter to myself.
If i´m ignored it´s ok.. I´m not causing any issues..
If i´m the focus of bad energy (hate) then i´m a problem..

Help me with: I just realized….

dave1971199 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

I know that ignore probably comes from the same word as ignorance, which in a way would make sense but, how do I become comfortable with being ignored?

Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

dave1971199 wrote:
I know that ignore probably comes from the same word as ignorance, which in a way would make sense but, how do I become comfortable with being ignored?

You just need to let go…

Help me with: I just realized….

dave1971199 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

OK. I will try harder. Thanks for your advice. :)

Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Any time…

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eua #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

We have a saying around where I’m from called Bothered!!!
Why would you care about someone who hates or ignores you, they shouldn’t matter to you at all, get on with life and Bothered about them.

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meepok_kia #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

better to be hated.

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