life help: What to do, if I’m not really good at anything?

What to do, if I’m not really good at anything?

Hello, so I’m not good at anything really (trust me, there’s nothing that i doesn’t suck at). I always lose in games, i’m 25 and never had a girlfriend or a job, even though i really want.

I often try to compare myself with other people. One friend for example.. he’s around girls all the time. He got a job (he’s 17, which means 8 years ahead of me), he wins any kind of games i play with him and i can go on.
So, against me, he excels at anything possible.. which means he’s not really a friend, because i can’t accept to have a friend that’s better than me.. of course.

So, i suck at anything possible in this world.. so, if i can’t get a job, a girlfriend or have any friends, what should i do?

Thanks you

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brocks41 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Surly there’s something?

scary doll 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 18 minutes after post)

There will be something, you just have not found it yet. What have you tried?

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jo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Thank you.

I don’t know.. it feels like I’ve tried everything.
I think I tried the stuff that i automaticly met in my life until now, and stuff that i might had found interesting at the given time..

Sorry, but I don’t have a list of stuff i’ve done, but if I don’t have any interests, i don’t know how i’m supposed to find motivation to try uninteresting things.

Regards

brocks41 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 49 minutes after post)

I’m sure you’re just feeling a bit low and things will get better! Even if what you say is true, you don’t need to be amazing at things to be an amazing person! Try to get a job, pick yourself up and get on with it. Someone who really loves you won’t just love you for your talents but for your personality.

Sorry if i sound uncaring- I know this must be really hard for you.

rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 26 minutes after post)

hey nothing is over. u just feel urself bitlow i’ll try my best to get u out. but small things u have to incorporate within u, once u feel the sucess its all ur’s buddy dont worry still days r there 4 u. if u wish u can mail me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 29 minutes after post)

my mail id is bmw.raja at gmail dot com

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jo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Thanks

I’m not so sure.. i’ve been unemployed since I finished my education in 2006. I’ve never had a real job.. did some temporary jobs a few times though. I thought i would help me getting a real job, but it didn’t.

I’m 25 now, and i see all people is good at something except for me.. Why do you think all people are good at something? I don’t believe that myself, and that might be unfortunate, because i can’t really change my beliefs, which might be one more fault in my personality, i guess. :(

rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 59 minutes after post)

hey see no one is perfect everyone have their own belief. u know sumting i was thinking myself low for past 4yr. not even giv a try to make friends specifically girls (lol). then i started watching other guys wat r they doin to become sucessfull. i believe tat u r gud at sumting the prblm is u didnt find it. tell bit abt u so tat i can try to figure it out how i’m gng to help u… never ever feel low.

first lets chavge tat then u can go 4 other like job, gf’s having fun etc……B-)

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anonymous5678 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)

well, what did you do in education?
surely theres a job you could do to follow on from there
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rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

now iam not working any where,currently actively looking for jobs. I did Electronics and instrumentation engineering. wat abt u?. since i’m in india -> Tamil nadu my culture is entirely diff from there.

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rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

wat abt ur MOM and DAD how r they?

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jo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

My education was about IT, mainly Windows servers and Cisco network.
The education is completely useless, unfortunately.

rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

do u know abt system hardware

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rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

wat r u did to get a job…..?

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jo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I do know about pc- and networking hardware.

I’m just writing applications all the time, but it’s a waste of time. I’m not gonna get the job.

rajasekar.eie8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

wat s ur qualification yaar.

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