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Do you date outside of your race?

Why or why not?

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Ems. offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I’ve dated guys, all of whom were different races to mine. I don’t think it should matter so much. I like knowing about their cultural backgrounds, too. Fun to experience different things :)

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

i do date outside my race sometimes. for me its not about the colour of the person skin its sbout how good lookin they are and their personality. but i do understand why some people don’t but for me its just not an issue. equality for all!!!!!!!!!

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x_glitter offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

:] Of course!
I mean we’re all people. We have organs & stuff. It doesn’t matter.
I only judge by personality & how he/she (bi here.) would treat me.

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jnnfersmt offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yes I do maybe their no wrong with dating as long as he/she is single.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I’ve noticed Americans, hispanics, and blacks in general all tend to date outside of their race. As a matter of fact, they aim to date outside of their race. Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

You know, I didn’t really think about it when I was dating an Asian girl. She was pretty, great sense of humour and we seemed to be on the save wavelength in social situations.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

Go outside and count how many Asian male-white/hispanic/black female couple there are.

I should have wrote “Asians (especially males)” but the point is they are against dating cultures outside of their own.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

Go outside and count how many Asian male-white/hispanic/black female couple there are.

I should have wrote “Asians (especially males)” but the point is they are against dating cultures outside of their own.

Lol. No you should have written MOST Asians blablabla, instead of generalising it to ALL Asians. Maybe you should go outside more. And further outside.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

Go outside and count how many Asian male-white/hispanic/black female couple there are.

I should have wrote “Asians (especially males)” but the point is they are against dating cultures outside of their own.

My buddy is Asian. And he’s been with a french-canadian girl for years.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

Go outside and count how many Asian male-white/hispanic/black female couple there are.

I should have wrote “Asians (especially males)” but the point is they are against dating cultures outside of their own.

this probably has something to do with he fact that there are less white Caucasian people living in Asia than there are comparably Asians living in Europe or America.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Joshy woshy poshy (very unique name, btw) is right.

I also have an Asian friend who’s dating a Czech girl for some time now. And also another, who’s dating an English girl.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

I have never dated anyone outside my race because the opportunity has never presented itself.I have no problem with it though.Why should color matter?

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Floetry offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Thanks.I was speaking from a personal level.I personally like dating outside of my race and I’ve actually never dated someone of my race..and I have friends that are asian and date outside of their race..

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Ems. offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

I’ve never dated someone of my race, too…
What made you ask this question, Floetry?

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scary doll offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I did and I liked it until he took me home to Trinidad and then it was like he changes species in his own country.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Dating outside your race is nothing. I have done it.

Try dating outside your species!!!

I once dated a girl who went from 0 to B***h in less than 3 seconds. By the end of the night, I swear I could see horns, claws, and fangs growing on her!!!!

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Warminster, PA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

eww, dating aliens is gross. no, I only date human beings.

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x_glitter offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Dating outside your race is nothing. I have done it.

Try dating outside your species!!!

I once dated a girl who went from 0 to B***h in less than 3 seconds. By the end of the night, I swear I could see horns, claws, and fangs growing on her!!!!

XD!! Why?
& An addition: If the girl/guy has long hair, that’s a plus >_> …

& soft skin… _

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Floetry offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Ems. wrote:
I’ve never dated someone of my race, too…
What made you ask this question, Floetry?

Because there’s two guys that are of my race that are interested in mee,even if I liked them I’m not sure if I would ever date them.I don’t know if it’s because I’ve become soo comfortable to dating outside of my race or if it’s something that I have to come face to face with..lol just a thought.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I didn’t as a teen. I was afraid of what people would say. As an adult..if you are attracted to me and I you, I don’t care about your race. Cultural differences can make a relationship interesting.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
excuse me?

Anonymous wrote:
Asians tend to be anti-multicultural so they don’t.

and you know this from where? that’s just plain ignorance. your generalisation of asians is just silly

Go outside and count how many Asian male-white/hispanic/black female couple there are.

I should have wrote “Asians (especially males)” but the point is they are against dating cultures outside of their own.

Lol. No you should have written MOST Asians blablabla, instead of generalising it to ALL Asians. Maybe you should go outside more. And further outside.

Admittedly today’s modern generation of Asian youth are more lenient towards dating outside of their race then their elder counterparts. Nonetheless the Asian culture has been, for centuries and even today, unicultural. I don’t even know WHERE you got your ego to have that much confidence in calling somebody ignorant and a no-lifer.

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