boyfriend help: I havnt had a boyfriend in years & i feel really unloved :(

jelly-fis

I havnt had a boyfriend in years & i feel really unloved :(

Im 16 and ive just started college & ive basically been hunting for a boyfriend & their either taken, boring or just not interested.. it truely sucks, i thought i’d find someone in college but i dont think its gonna happen to be honest, i dont understand what im doing wrong? everyone seems to be loved up and im totally happy for them but it just makes me feel rather lonely and a tad bit crap.. i wish i could just be patient but i really cant..******, i just want to feel loved (sounds cheesy i know but its true) :( What can i do to show guys that im available without looking like a S**g or just stupid?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

From what I get from life, the only thing you may be doing wrong is trying to force it to happen… It would happen easily if you weren’t looking for a boyfriend or a relationship.

Best to just be yourself, and when you least expect someone will show up.

LoneWulf 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
From what I get from life, the only thing you may be doing wrong is trying to force it to happen… It would happen easily if you weren’t looking for a boyfriend or a relationship.

Best to just be yourself, and when you least expect someone will show up.

you could listen to that old cleshay or you could hit up some clubs, bars, and dating websites and score yourself a zero.
The best places to meet people would be through volunteer services or clubs.

Help me with: Unrequited Love,

Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

It is an old cheshay but there is some truth in it.

When we are desperately trying to find someone, it is common we fail to see those right in front of our eyes. It’s like when you really need your car keys in order to get to work, you search and search just to not finding them… When they were always in the usual place. Where you put them every day. LOL

That’s my opinion. But you are right EmptySoul, thoose are good places to find someone. It’s not like someone will knock at the door with some roses if we do nothing in order to meet someone.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

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We can talk about this!

Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Hye jelly …Don’t worry much about…
love is something you can’t ask people !! Just be the way you are…try to be friends with someone , then you might know whether he is good to go further step ahead!1
But,yea…you gotta have some patience in things like this…
If rush things now, people will use you…..(not everyone in this world are good)…so have some patience (a lot!!!)…..and try to be yourself…
you might found someone…..good luck:)

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