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i just started year 10 and i’ve started wearing a headscarf.

most my friends ignore me but others who already wear headscarfs are happy that im wearing one. also i just got my sats results and they are ****. i cant do gcse so i’ve been given btec. my mom is upset because she wants me to do gcse because btec doesn’t get you any where.i used to be clever, but i don’t know what has happened to me. its like i got brainwashed. im livin in a lie, tellin everyone that i never got my results. im going CRAZY here! what can i do?

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Naw

You just want to be loved, respected and accepted. So you’re looking for ways to get that. You’re looking for a group you can fit into. The more pressure you feel from outside/parents/etc. the more you will do this.

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nikki_wad offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

You used to be clever? You are still you ! You are still the same - you probably just have alot going on right now. . . I suspec this because you have just taken the decision to cover your head? Examine why you did this, peer pressure? pressure from family? Or because you wanted to? In any case this is a big descision, and maybe this has distracted you?

I have to say don`t stress about GCSE, you are young and they (the school system) puts so much pressure to perform and know what you want to do with your life - in truth, most of us go through life without a definitive plan (even if you have a plan chances are that things will happen and you`ll have to change it !)

If it makes you feel less concerned, I left school at 14 with no GCSE`s (I was in a childrens home and life then was tough). I am now just completing my PhD - and will be a doctoral scientist soon ! Don`t stress so much, and do`t be down on your self !

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Dorian offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Why can’t you do GCSE? What did you get in your SATS?

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